judestar.livejournal.comI need help.
I have finally admitted defeat and know I need some advice, please, because I just cannot seem to orgasm, ever at all.
I think part of the problem is I am very uptight about sex, it hurts when he enters me because i tense up without realising, and I can never seem to acheive any sort of orgasm unless I am on top or in total control.
And it's really starting to ruin my sex life, because I am just not interested any more :S
And it's allright saying you;'re too tense, just relax, but this is something I have been trying to beat for the last couple of years (basically since I started having sex) and it's just no good.
I can't win, I need help.
Please?
NB. I do masturbate occasionally, and I can make myself cum, but during sex it is just totally different.