i know this has been asked... but its different for me.

[madcatter.livejournal.com]

Ok, so here's my question... i CAN'T orgasm from other girls!! I have never had an orgasm with anyone but myself. I'm slightly self concious about my body, but not enough that it should impede my ability to get off. I'm not tense or anything, and i get aroused quite easily, but unless i take care of it myself... no one has made me orgasm. Does anyone know what this could be from. I haven't had any traumatizing experiences or anything... its always been this way.

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[katlynel.livejournal.com]

Can you masturbate to orgasm with another woman present? If so, that should tell you it's just a question of technique ... if not, that might tell you you're subconsciously too tense (or otherwise blocked) to orgasm.

[madcatter.livejournal.com]

i cant even masturbate to orgasm anymore...

[katlynel.livejournal.com]

eep. That's not good. Um, I might attribute that partly to body image issues, but I'm not sure what to tell you to help you overcome them. Have you considered investing in a nice, nonrepresentational vibrator? I spent $9 on one at Spencer's and it revolutionized my sex life. Are you taking any antidepressant medications, or birth control pills or anything?