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onlygoodbook.livejournal.com

I've been with my partner (cis-male, I'm cis-female) for almost a year and we have a wonderful relationship and active sex life... and I still can't get over my nerves about oral sex to actually let him go down on me, though he is eager to do so. I love going down on him and so I can imagine that he would earnestly look forward to returning the favor, but I just can't imagine that it won't be a turn off for him. One of my concerns is that I've NEVER had an orgasm. Oral sex is kind of the last frontier. Both PIV sex and being touched by my partner can both feel great, but intense approaching-an-orgasm feelings come and go pretty quickly, dissipating after a few seconds. If oral sex doesn't do it for me either, I am a bit worried that my partner (and I!) will be disappointed. How can I work on my own feelings toward this so that I can relax? I've been sexually active for five years (I'm 23) and I'm starting to feel like there's something wrong with my body. No one is making me feel this way - every sexual partner I've had has been understanding and not taken my inability to orgasm as some kind of deficiency or personal insult, so this is coming from me.

I don't feel insecure or unsure about sex and I have a healthy body image, except for these few square centimeters in this one very particular situation! :-/

EDITED TO ADD: Aiming at orgasm isn't at all the object of sex for me. My partner and I have a great sex life, I think, and I am always happy to be intimate with him. I don't think about reaching orgasm, just enjoying the experience.

Thanks!

119-105.livejournal.com

First time poster, hi. Hopefully I didn't screw anything up! :)

I'm a little worried here, so hopefully you all can help me out. Can oral sex on a woman cause heartburn or acid reflux in the giver? A couple of minutes after my boyfriend was finished with me, so to say, he got some serious heartburn or acid reflux... whatever it is when the stomach acid burns your throat.

Now he has a history of heartburn, but he said it's never been that bad before. I'm free of STI's, but could I still be the cause of this? Isn't the vagina an acidic environment? Something in the discharge perhaps?

I'm feeling extremely guilty, so any advice would help. Thank you.

miss-maybe.livejournal.com

I never have. There's nothing that could be done "better" or anything like that. There's nothing about it specifically that I don't like... just the texture of a tongue down there... the mere idea of it feels weird to me... it kind of turns me off.

My boyfriend now, of 8 months, really wants me to enjoy oral sex (I actually enjoy giving oral sex... I like to please him- so I understand him wanting to reciprocate) and we've tried just about everything I think anyone here would suggest. He insists that I have to be the only female to not enjoy oral sex. After having read a lot of posts here about it, I'm getting the feeling he might be right! He's really understanding about it all, and we've always been honest with each other about what we like and don't like sexually... but when it comes to giving me oral sex... for some reason he seems a little hung up on it. We've talked about it at length, but I feel like we just go in circles.

I guess I was wondering if anyone has the same aversion to oral sex... and how you cope with significant others wanting you to enjoy something that you just don't see yourself ever enjoying.

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petal-abstract.livejournal.com

My boyfriend has facial hair. I really like to receive oral sex.

This is problematic.

My vulva, right around my vaginal opening, is rubbed raw. Oddly enough its raw right about the spot his whisker filled chin rests and rubs when he preform oral sex.

Now its just kinda stingy, a little itchy and just over an annoyance that won't go away because it gets aggravated by toilet paper, more fooling around, and other factors. I don't want him to shave because I just don't think that would be fair of me to ask because he doesn't ask me to shave my legs, etc. Plus I like it, when its not rubbing me raw of course.

What can I do A) To avoid this problem (that doesn't require giving up oral) and B) Heal up my vulva?

Thank you!

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shes-unreal.livejournal.com

Ask Dr. Dyke

by Beth Brown, M.D.

How safe, really, are things like dental dams and other barriers for oral sex between two women?
-Hungry

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leave-it-be.livejournal.com

i am just FULL of questions today. probably because last night was sort of a breakthrough evening with my S.O.

we were talking about fantasies and whatnot and i asked him if there was anything he fantasizes about that he hadn't told me. he said "one thing..." and after a few minutes of coaxing, he finally told me that he wants to finger me while giving me a rim job. i was a bit taken aback.

i am not a fan of buttholes. in fact, when we first started sleeping together i told him i wasn't into anal play. but most of that was based off of the fact that i don't have any experience with it.

i would really like to be able to do this for him. i love him very much and i'm willing to try new things. who knows, maybe i'll like it... but it took me a while to even get used to the idea of 69ing because i was so paranoid about having his face jammed in my ass (only to find out later that he actually likes that aspect!).

so i spent a while reading up on it today, trying to figure out the best way to go about it and keep everything clean (i've decided a nice piece of saran wrap and some lube is the way to go because there is NO way i'm allowing him to put his tongue on/in my bum) but i'm still a little weirded out by it just because i've always thought that your bum is dirty and so why would anyone want to put their face (let alone their tongue) near it??

does anyone have any words of advice for becoming more comfortable with the whole idea? any personal stories on weird things that can happen while you're down there?

thanks vagpagers.

oh and just a note: he isn't putting any pressure on me to do this. he told me that if it makes me uncomfortable that i don't even have to consider doing it. so no worries there : )

--heavythoughts.livejournal.com

ive only written in here once before, but im writing agian, cuz i need some help.

i have a girlfriend [im a girl as well, im bi] and we want to eat eachother out. well she wants to do my first. but ive never done it before and im really nervous. I really wanna do it, but im really nervous, like i already said. do you have any comments or anyting that could help me? or like can you tell me ur first experience getting oral to help me?? thanks in advance. i need some help. lol.

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