I don't like recieving oral sex.
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I never have. There's nothing that could be done "better" or anything like that. There's nothing about it specifically that I don't like... just the texture of a tongue down there... the mere idea of it feels weird to me... it kind of turns me off.
My boyfriend now, of 8 months, really wants me to enjoy oral sex (I actually enjoy giving oral sex... I like to please him- so I understand him wanting to reciprocate) and we've tried just about everything I think anyone here would suggest. He insists that I have to be the only female to not enjoy oral sex. After having read a lot of posts here about it, I'm getting the feeling he might be right! He's really understanding about it all, and we've always been honest with each other about what we like and don't like sexually... but when it comes to giving me oral sex... for some reason he seems a little hung up on it. We've talked about it at length, but I feel like we just go in circles.
I guess I was wondering if anyone has the same aversion to oral sex... and how you cope with significant others wanting you to enjoy something that you just don't see yourself ever enjoying.
My boyfriend now, of 8 months, really wants me to enjoy oral sex (I actually enjoy giving oral sex... I like to please him- so I understand him wanting to reciprocate) and we've tried just about everything I think anyone here would suggest. He insists that I have to be the only female to not enjoy oral sex. After having read a lot of posts here about it, I'm getting the feeling he might be right! He's really understanding about it all, and we've always been honest with each other about what we like and don't like sexually... but when it comes to giving me oral sex... for some reason he seems a little hung up on it. We've talked about it at length, but I feel like we just go in circles.
I guess I was wondering if anyone has the same aversion to oral sex... and how you cope with significant others wanting you to enjoy something that you just don't see yourself ever enjoying.