Orgasms...NEVER HAD ONE. :(

[rachelc66.livejournal.com]

I know what an orgasm is...but I have never experienced what most people would call a "good orgasm". I have been having sex for a few years now...and have had multiple sex partners, yet, have never experienced a great feeling. Sex feels good all the time, it's not like I'm just having sex and not getting anything out of it, but I haven't had that finale...which is what supposedly makes sex so great! Only time I have ever orgasmed is either:
A. When I use my vibrator for the clitoral stimulation
or
B. When my partner gives me oral again, stimulating my clit.

Other than that, I am STUMPED as to how exactly I can orgasm, and how it feels. Can someone please help me? What are the feelings of an orgasm through intercourse? Do some women just never orgasm through intercourse?? Ahh help!!

Is sex like an addiction?

[lunarcapricorn.livejournal.com]

Do some people really NEED sex? Like they can't function without it?

I would like to have a sex-less relationship, but I've noticed that when we go without for a while, my boyfriend gets more determined to have sex. He starts making dirty comments/jokes, grabbing me, touching me more, etc. He's not the nice man I know, he gets scary. Sometimes I really have to fight him off.

I don't understand it because I can go forever without. Do some people just NEED to have sex?

HPV questions

[technotaco.livejournal.com]

Okay, so I know that women can get tested for HPV through a pap, then get further testing through a colposcopy... done and done and doing again.


But is there a test for men? What about treating a man? It's a virus, so it should just go away, right?

The thing is, my boyfriend and I keep passing it back and forth, and I'm just trying to be done with it, without having to NEVER have sex with him again. We've discussed not having sex until it all passes, but is there any way to know it's passed?

I looked in the "archives" but...I couldn't find anything. also with googling. please help.

Yaz Birth Control Question

[sugarlumples.livejournal.com]

Hi everyone,

I have a question about bleeding while on Yaz birth control. I have been on it for a little over six months and I have noticed that lately (within the last three months) during my period my menstrual flow has been...odd. It is almost watery and not red at all. It is a mauve/brown color. Is this normal? None of the other BC pills I have used have done this so I'm wondering if it is the Yaz causing it or what. Sorry if this is graphic. Thanks in advance for any help!

withdrawal bleeding; clitorial orgasms; popping noise?

[loveofdaisies.livejournal.com]

3 questions. :)

1. First of all, I briefly looked around here for a link on withdrawal bleeding but I didn't find one.

Can someone explain to me exactly what that's all about?

It's my first period on HBC and I really want to understand what's going on in my body.

I know it's not a "real" period, so I'm wondering if clotting and all of that is normal?

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2. I cannot orgasm clitorally.

I'm almost beginning to wonder if it's just impossible for me to orgasm that way?

Like, when my boyfriend stimulates me it just..it's so sensitive a lot of times it hurts.

If it doesn't hurt it feels okay, even good, but there's never anything close to orgasming or anything like that.

I've tried feeling around by myself to see what feels good but...nothing really does.

Anyone else like this? And/or can anyone suggest some things to do to really stimulate that area? I hear that's the easiest way to orgasm and I can't even do it that way. :(

Very frustrating.

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3. Several days ago someone made an entry on here about popping noises during sex, and I heard the popping noises for the first time yesterday when my boyfriend and I had sex.

I went back to find that post to see what people said about it, but I can't find it.

So could someone either link me to it or just offer some explaination as to what it is exactly?

It didn't hurt or anything, just...yeah, made a popping sound.

Thanks!

Hormones question

[violet-tigress1.livejournal.com]

I posted last week about dizzy spells. Today I saw my Neuro & she gave me a refferal to an ENT for testing.

I wentt off hbc (OrthoTriCyclen & OrthoTriCyclen Lo) in the middle of last year, after havinng been on it for 3 or 4 years. Is it a valid concern that it could've messed up my hormone levels?

VP Team Bios-geminigirl

[geminigirl]

My Dearest Vulva-Loving Superstars,

As several of you have requested, your friendly neighborhood VP Team members are taking this opportunity to let you get to know us a little better. We will take turns posting our bios for your reading pleasure. :) Check out the tag for this entry to view them all.

Of course, we want to get to know you, too, so if you haven't already and you'd like to, feel free to introduce yourself here, as indicated on the profile page. (Note that you can also now add yourself to VP's Frappr map from the intro page.) If you made your introduction a while ago and your life has changed dramatically since then, reply to your old comment and update us!

( And so, I present this bio to you )

Why Am I Dry Underwater?

[sugarini.livejournal.com]

 I know it's not abnormal, but I want to know why the vulva is dry when underwater. It's not like I can't get wet when I'm taking a shower, but have you ever touched your genitals while taking a bath, or in the pool, or in the ocean? Completely dry. It's not uncomfortable, and it's not as if I get a yeast infection or I itch after. I would just like to know...why?

Stopping birth control

[youmakemerise.livejournal.com]

I'm thinking about going off BC (Yasmin). Do I just stop taking it, or should I wait until I'm on the sugar pills? 

What effects did BC have on your body? I'm having issues w/ weight gain, it's not a lot, but it bothers me. And my boobs have gone up a size, which bothers me too. Which is why I want to quit taking it.

Successful tampon insertion, but doesn't know if it's staying.

[ms-octopus-lady.livejournal.com]

So...I asked earlier this week for advice about tampons.

Well, I went out this week and bought myself some Tampax "Light" tampons, came home...and I put one in.

I hope I don't sound like I'm making a big deal out of nothing, but this is great news for me, even if it is only a really thin tampon! I have been having the most terrible penetration problems, and I was able to get the tampon in like it was nothing! It was so easy! I was so excited I wanted to run outside and tell all my roommates and call up my boyfriend and e-mail my cousin and shout to the world, "I GOT A TAMPON IN!" but I'm quite sure that everyone will think I'm crazy.

Anyway...I still have a question though. I didn't really feel the tampon when I first put it in (which was another thing that really weirded me out at first), but when I sit down, it felt like the opening to my vagina is being...pinched, I guess is the term for it. And right now (two hours after I put it in), it kind of feels like it's getting pushed out. BUt when I stand up, I don't feel anything.

Is my body pushing it out? Or did I not put the tampon in back far enough? I really hope that my body isn't pushing it out. I really like this whole tampon thing.

post-period funk

[stenodork.livejournal.com]

is it just me, or does the end of the period discharge (usu more brown for me) smell really different than the period and not good?
it smells a lot stronger to me than just regular period.

sharp pain!

[oooruinerooo.livejournal.com]

so sometimes, when i cough or sneeze, i get this really, really deep pain in my ovary area. it's sharp, and it lasts for up to two minutes after the cough/sneeze occurs.

is this common? i think if i had some horrible disease or some problem, my gyno would have said something during my last visit...this has been going on for about 2 or 3 years now. and i'm retarded cos i forgot to ask the gyno about it every time i've been. it doesn't happen often..just about...once a week/ once every couple of weeks.

thoughts? advice? help?

bikini wax

[diamondxavenue.livejournal.com]

hey all, just a quick question about bikini waxes:

how much hair do they remove? I can't seem to find an answer to this on the web. is it just the hair on your mons pubis or is it also the labia majora? and what's the difference between a bikini wax and a brazilian wax?

I want the mons pubis and labia majora waxed, but not anything lower than that. I've actually tweezed the entire area clean by myself before, and i would do it again, but it takes a little while and I'm currently in college with a roommate. But I'll probably be able to take the pain, right?