Recently I have heard a bit of criticism regarding feminism and the more recent pro-vagina movement,
The Vagina Monologues etc. The criticism is that feminists are sending the "wrong message" by speaking about vaginas because they are reducing women to their vaginas, and feminists have fought for so long to be seen as
people.
However, I was not, until recently comfortable saying the
word vagina. It was this secret I had, nevermind that 51% of the population had one too. I could refer to it, and in a sexual context say some of the more "naughty" euphamisms we have for it. But vagina was clinical, not sexy, not beautiful or mysterious. (I love how Eve Ensler addresses this.) And growing up, so many terms for vagina mean weak, scared. The kid who doesn't play football, but joins the art club is a "pussy." A pussy is one without muscles. Possessing balls, however, means you know how to flex. The vagina movement is one that redefines vagina. It is strong, mysterious, beautiful, empowering. Whomever believes that feminists are sending the wrong message isn't listening. We are not attempting to undo our citizenship as people. It is not about how we are viewed in the world. It is about how we have come to view ourselves. We are screaming the secret. We have vaginas. We don't not have penises.
And as an addendum, I must add I LOVE men (sometimes). I am not a raging feminist. This is a rant, and I mean every word.