[identity profile] ruari-explained.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] vaginapagina
I've recently started to see someone new and it got me thinking. How do you decided when to advance the relationship physically (ie kissing, oral, spending the night, sex)? Do you have a set amount of time, like 3 dates before having sex for example, or does it depend on the person?

I just feel silly thinking like "Well, on Tuesday I'll do this for the first time, and then when I see him next week, we'll go to third base. If things progress well, I'll let him stay over on the 23rd..."

Date: 2007-01-20 04:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluesuitcase.livejournal.com
I agree. I'm currently with my first boyfriend/sexual partner, and he is in the same position. Although we have been together for two years, we are holding off PIV sex until I feel comfortable asking my mother for birth control [I would not want to go on it without her knowing, or have sex without HBC.] We've paced ourselves a lot more slowly than a lot of friends, I guess...we did not kiss until after a month of being 'together,' and had oral sex after 1.5 years. Although creativity can change things, we just always want to have 'something left to do' without rushing everything.

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