after masterbating, hurts next morning

[missunknownn.livejournal.com]

yesterday afternoon-ish, i was masterbating for about 2 hours, more or less.
and when i woke up this morning and went to pee, it didnt hurt going, but when i was almost done, it hurt comming out. Not like a burning hurt, like a pain hurt.

I was wondering if anybody might know whats causing it to hurt?

from BJ to GYNs

[paper-dollsxxx.livejournal.com]

okay well i need some comfort because this has been bothering me

the other day, i gave my first BJ, it was kinda weird because me and the guy were really high and i really didnt want to do it because my mind was some place else (we were hanging out with other people and it was me and my one friend and we met up with his friends and i felt bad because i just left my one friend but she didnt mind since they were smoking some more) but anyway, this isnt the first time we hooked up, we did so last winter but it was only making out since we were outside in the snow. but anyway, so he asked for a blow job and i just went for it. (probably a bad thing since i wasnt into it at all, and i kept thinking i would rather be smoking then be here..which is weird since i had a major crush on this kid a couple months back) but anyway we were doing that, but then he stoped me which i didnt really care at the time, but i was wondering why did he do that? and my nevers got the best of me and all night i spent thinking as to why he just stoped me. after that we headed back over to where everyone else was which was ackward a little bit but since i was high i didnt really care, but of coarse now im thinking what if i sucked? what if he tell all his friends? i probably didnt do a good job because im just never into that after smoking because i already have cotten mouth and im just too lazy.
i dont really no what im asking her i guess the main question is, why did he stop me? and i dont know how to make me not think about all the negative stuff.


question two:
i have a GYN appt tomorrow, but i just got my period, is that a problem? the appt was about my period being out of wack so i dont know if they really want to examine me. also, would i be considered sexually active? the experience above is the furthest i've even gone. i never had PIV sex

PMS -- a week too early?

[ne-jyam.livejournal.com]

Argh. So, normally my boobs get swollen and horribly painful about a week before my period starts up. And I normally get emotional a couple days before my period starts.

Well, last April I started getting the horribly painful boobs a full two weeks before my period. My period started according to schedule two weeks later, but the swollen-owie boobs started a full week before they normally do. It did that for like 2 or 3 months, and then went back to it's normal 1 week before-period schedule.

Except it's started doing it again this month as well. ;_; Swollen painful boobs about two weeks before my period's scheduled to start up. And this time I'm also having the whole emotions x10 thing two weeks early as well!

WTH is going on with my body? Have any of you heard of or experienced anything like this? If you ever mentioned it to your gyno, did it turn out to be a symptom of something else? Or...something?

The only thing abnormal about my reproductive system is that I was diagnosed with HPV back in Dec '04...but I just had my check-up in July, and nothing has progressed or anything.

I want my boobs to go back to normal! :(


ps: I'm not on any birth control (haven't been for a few of years...hormonal bc's make me feel like a homicidal maniac), and am currently not sexually active, though I have a steady boyfriend. We were active back in Feb and March, using condoms, but we decided to chill out for a while after a condom-slippage scare and a trip to the drug store for Plan B. o_O My libido has also been crappy as hell since this spring -- like, normally I'm wanting to get off a few times a week, but now I'm barely getting off twice a month!

I was also having some abdominal discomfort/pain since May or so, which I got checked out in July...they did a pelvic exam and an ultrasound, and blood tests, but couldn't find anything wrong (doc was concerned I had a cyst/tumor on my uterus). Pain went away for about a month, but came back last Thursday...I have an appointment in a couple weeks with a GI specialist (turns out my dad and his family have a history of twisted intestines). I dunno if any of this is related or not though. o_O Figured I'd mention it anyway, just in case.

periods? kinda..

[08221988.livejournal.com]

so idk if this really is appropriate for this community? but it has to do with periods, periods..you bleed from your vagina..vaginapagina..bam!

so do your boobs grow right before you start your period?

ive heard that they do then they go back to normal size after your period?

is that true?

cause my boobs within the past couple of days have grown..like a cup size..is that normal?

i have a feeling i may be pregnant, and im supposed to start my period tomorrow, so im wondering if the whole boob growing thing could be period related?

Healing abscess

[erlgirl-9.livejournal.com]

Okay, my dears. I posted previously about a very painful boil/abscess on my clitoral hood/clit that appeared a two weeks ago. Many trips to the ER later, the abscess came to a head and ruptured, draining out. It's been...deflating, I guess, since then. It's been pretty itchy, and there was white stuff in between my outer lips and inner lips, which I figured was dead skin, causing the irritation. That cleared up about two days ago, and it stopped itching at around the same time. It was nearly back to normal size, too.

When my boyfriend and I engage in our extracurricular activities, the pleasurable feelings in my clit are no longer quite as strong as they used to be, as well as being mostly painful (so I tell him to back off, and we try again later). We decided last night to take a two day "break" from doing anything with it, since I am terrified that I'm irritating it and making it worse. What also irritates it is my underwear..even if I'm not wearing tight pants, the underwear still rubs/sticks against my clit hood, as it's still not normal-sized again.

Now, I'm afraid it's getting worse again, or that it's been damaged somehow (the gyno did, at first, stick a needle into it and drain it. Ow, yes).  I walk more now since classes have started and it's a 15-minute walk to the university from my house. Maybe this is irritating it? Tonight, when I brush it wrong I get a sharp pain, as if it's still raw.

I'm taking homeopathic Silica (3 tiny pellets dissolved under my tongue once a day) as recommended by the naturopath, as well as diluted grapefruit seed extract to minimize possible infection. Anybody have experience with either of these remedies?

So...any advice? Am I just getting impatient? Or is this something I should be concerned about?

vaginal pain during sex

[mixedclash.livejournal.com]

For the last couple of months or so, when I lie in certain positions (missionary, for example) during sex, it hurts a lot. But if I lie on my stomach, it doesn't hurt so much. I talked to a nurse (can't see the gyno until the 19th), and she said I may not be getting aroused enough and to start having more foreplay and breaking out the K-Y. I did and it's helped somewhat, but not entirely. I have no idea what it could be. Any thoughts?

description of the pain: My vaginal walls and the back of my vagina hurt with penetration in some positions, even when I'm lubricated.