[identity profile] soulsearch2010.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] vaginapagina
Does anyone else have trouble getting off with a partner? I started having sex when I was 19. I'm 27 now and I haven't had a single orgasm with any partners. I feel like every man I've been with thinks my vag is a penis and a few strokes is all it takes me to get me going. I can't come through PIV sex and I'm so jealous of anyone who can. I enjoy the sensation but it's not enough. Mind you I've never been in a long-term relationship so that might affect my comfort level, since most guys I've been with are usually a one-time thing or at the most it lasts a couple of weeks. Anyway.....some times I just want to have sex for the sake of having sex, especially when the guy is super attractive, but I just can't seem to come and I don't know how to instruct them without hurting their super-senstive ego. Not to generalize, but every guy I've been with seems to need some kind of reassurance that they're "doing me right" and I don't know how to say "no, you're doing it all wrong" without being rude, especially when it comes to educating them about my vag. Any suggestions?

or do you think this is somehting I can only achieve in a long-term relationship, where we have time to get to know eachother's bodies better and trust eachother enough to be comfortable to try anything?

Thanks!

Date: 2011-12-30 12:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whatsherface162.livejournal.com
Hahah it's fine. I think it's pretty hilariously myself. A friend of mine, after telling her that story, thought pee came from her vagina hole so I was able to educate her too. I encourage women now to take a mirror to your crotch and check it out. Quite cool

Date: 2011-12-30 06:13 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] archangelbeth
Although there are some people whose urethras do get very close, or even slightly inside, the vagina! It's on the statistically rare side, but it's possible. Those people also tend to be more vulnerable to getting a UTI after penetrative sex, even if they urinate right after to flush out bacteria, because the act of penetration irritates their urethras so much, and pushes bacteria in so effectively. O:(

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