Do all women require alot of foreplay?

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When I am with girls, I do not like to spend a lot of time on foreplay. I usually want to spend, maybe 5 minutes at most, then get down to the deed. Of course, if the sex does not bring the woman to orgasm, after I come I will return to her needs until she cums, no matter how long it takes to accomplish. If I spend any more than 5 minutes on foreplay I lose the passion, and therefore I cannot perform.

So my question is, are the women who don't like to spend a lot of time on foreplay rare? My girlfriend tells me that they are very rare indeed (she also tells me that most girls don't like intercourse, just clitoral stimulation, so I never know what to believe from her), but I really wouldn't know. I haven't been with a lot of women. So the question is do all women require alot of foreplay?

EDIT - I suppose I should have initially added that I suffer from mild erectile dysfunction, so none of this is really a choice on my part. If I usually don't get it in within a few minutes, it doesn't come back up.

Comments

[mangofandango.livejournal.com]

To me, the stuff that qualifies as "foreplay" in many people's minds is actually just an extension of sex. Part of what that means that even if I'm ready to have intercourse, I don't always want intercourse right away, because I enjoy other activities just as much. I really like oral sex, a lot, and I love having my G-spot stimulated by my partner's fingers, etc. etc. Even just kissing and touching each other is awesome. I'd hate to miss out on that stuff just because the focus is on PIV sex and getting straight to some sort of mythical "point".

I can't speak for all women, though, and neither can your partner. Most women require some level of foreplay at least some of the time, and many probably need a significant amount. Also, many women can orgasm far more easily from clitoral stimulation than intercourse alone. But, there is no statement that applies to all women at once, and everyone is different.

I'm not sure how ED works, here, but if you can, I would try focusing on the activity at hand and enjoying the good feelings you get (and give!) during that activitiy. Then try only focusing on getting/keeping an erection when your partner is ready/is asking for intercourse. Take your time, relax, and don't get upset if it doesn't work the way you want it to instantly. Good luck!