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Wow. So last night I went to a party and got ridiculously drunk, and slept with someone. It was my first time, and no, I don't regret it. I don't really look at sex as that big of a deal, but I do have a question about it. The guy was very nice, and I made sure he wore a condom. So we get started, and then I lost track of time, but I check, and the condom is gone. So I tell him, and then he puts another one on. What I'm most worried about is whether or not I'm likely to get pregnant. Neither of us came, perhaps because we were both too drunk, or it just wasn't happening since I was a virgin, so I know there was no actual semen inside of me. I do know that you can still get pregnant from the secretions or whatever and I also am worried that perhaps I was too drunk to notice if he did, in fact, ejaculate.

I just got off period about two days ago and am worried what the likelihood of me getting pregnant is?


sorry for this post being kind of here and there and not well thought out, but I'm still a little wobbly. I just wanted to know about this so I can be sure, or if I should do something.



well.
thank you! 

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Date: 2007-05-05 06:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] youngcaesar.livejournal.com
I know you're saying that you don't regret it, and I'm glad you didn't feel unsafe, but I wanted to say about alcohol and sex, that there are so many ways for alcohol to make a sexual situation really unhealthy and unconsentual, because people aren't in a state of mind to think about it. I just want to put that concept out there because situations like that in the future, where you may be too drunk to know what you're doing and therefore not be safe or even know what's going on, can be prevented just by practicing good party tactics: thinking about what decisions you want to make beforehand and communicating them to friends so they know when to intervene, knowing who you trust, having control over drinking, you and friends looking after and not leaving each other, etc.

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