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If a condom leaves a red indentation around the base when it's removed, does that mean it's too tight? My boyfriend says they're a bit uncomfortable for him. This is his first time having sex, and he's been lasting way over an hour each time. In theory, that's great for me but at the same time my vagina gets a little tired after so long. He's had to just get himself off afterwards because I'm too orgasmed-out to let him try more. Could the condoms be preventing him from coming if they're too tight? We're using standard lubricated trojans, if that makes any difference.

Thanks for all your help!

Date: 2007-01-28 06:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jitteryladybug.livejournal.com
I'll second the larger condom solution, and that the tightness of the condom may be contributing to him not coming.

That said, it may not just be the condom's tightness (or lack of sensation) that is preventing him from orgasming- It could also be that he's used to a tight 'grip' on his penis when he's pleasing himself. Often when men are used to masturbating as their means of getting off, it takes a while to adjust to the different sort of pressure/friction that vaginas provide.

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