Relationship Milestones

[ruari-explained.livejournal.com]

I've recently started to see someone new and it got me thinking. How do you decided when to advance the relationship physically (ie kissing, oral, spending the night, sex)? Do you have a set amount of time, like 3 dates before having sex for example, or does it depend on the person?

I just feel silly thinking like "Well, on Tuesday I'll do this for the first time, and then when I see him next week, we'll go to third base. If things progress well, I'll let him stay over on the 23rd..."

Comments

[adina77.livejournal.com]

For me with my current boyfriend, I waited 2 weeks before having sex with him. I had a really bad relationship before him and didn't want to get hurt again and watched out for myself. Now we are almost to our year and a half mark :)