Yet another pre-cum question.

[tool007.livejournal.com]

Hi. I recently found this community during some browsing and since it pretty much relates to what I want to be enlightened on, I decided to join.

So, this is it:

Aprox. one week ago, my girlfriend and I were on my bed, "playing" (read: masturbating) with each other. At some point, she said she was ready for her first time, so I put on TWO condom and we did it. Since it was pretty dark, she had to take my penis into her vagina. Didn't last very long. Not because I came, but due to her having quite some pain and wanting to stop. So, I didn't ejaculate inside her (even if some pre-cum was laying around the condom, I suppose it didn't get out since the base is very tough, as if squeezing the penis and it had yet another base (for the second condom) after the first one; plus, I only went in and out four or five times).
Now, two days ago she told me she hadn't realized it at the moment, but before we did it, she had a bit of pre-cum on her hand and was unsure about wheter or not it dried while she was undressing (by touching her clothes and so)... We thought it might be dangerous, since her hand had to touch the vagina during intercourse.

What do you think?

Also, after that, actually, 3 days ago, we had sex again. It all went well. I used two condoms in the first day (I was kind of scared) and one in the second. During the first day (I didn't cum inside her, I was a little shy...), when I used two condoms, I noticed some pre-cum was laying around the condom. Same thing happened the next day, where I started using only one.
I thought it was normal, seeing I followed the panflet which comes with the condoms and teaches how to put one on. However, since, with the thrusts, the condom moves, I started to feel frightened due to the pre-cum moving around and near the base of the condom. Again, I know there is quite some pressure applied by the base and also, I didn't see anything come out (I'm talking about a small amount of pre-cum), but, even so, we decided she would take the Next Morning Pill. So, these two times we had sex were on a Saturday night and a Sunday afternoon. She took the Morning Pill at around 12A.M. on Monday, just before lunchtime. I guess this solves mine and her fears on having seen the pre-cum laying around on the condoms I wore, even without ejaculating inside her.

However, what about the week before, when we had our first time? If pre-cum was laying around on the condom this weekend, it must have been so as well the other week when we started having sex.

This, together with the first referred and described event kind of scares me... ok, a lot. Even more since she is very irregular (and from August to December 2006, her period skipped) and if it were regular, her period should have appeared the Friday before we had sex for the second time - and didn't. This frightens me even more. There is no way for now to tell wheter or not she is indeed pregnant, is there?

This situation is really heavy for both of us, seeing we're only teenagers (both 17)...

Can anyone give their opinion on this matter? I'm pretty sure she would not get pregnant from the intercourse this weekend, since, even if there was something wrong with the condoms, she took the Next Morning Pill a day and a half after the first encounter. What worries me is what happened on our first time.

Thank you for reading all of this. I hope you can leave a word or two on the subject...

Comments

[frolicnaked.livejournal.com]

"... try buying condoms with spermicidal lubricant..."

Just as a quick note, this section (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=Non-Hormonal_Birth_Control#Spermicide) of the Vulvapedia mentions that the World Health Organization no longer recommends condoms with spermicidal lubricant already on them. Essentially, they're no more effective than condoms without spermicide; they are, however, still more effective than no condom at all. ;)

[chibiluv.livejournal.com]

Thankyou, I was unaware of that.