natural lube & elusive orgasms

[iguanasdefuego.livejournal.com]

I'm 18 and have been with my partner for two years. We are very open with each other and comfortable doing and saying anything with/to each other. We've always been satisfied in our sex life.

So here's the problem:
I can't seem to make natural lube anymore. In the beginning, we just had booty calls so I could "rev myself up" for sex and be ready by the time he came to pick me up. But now we are dating and living together so sex happens whenever and I can never get wet enough for penetration without assistance. Is there anyway I can enhance my lubrication making abilities?

And here's problem number two:
I have had a million billion orgasms. But I've never had one with my lover (or any other partner I've had). He does everything- the man has performed oral sex for almost an hour to no avail. It feels good, and sometimes I start to feel the build, but then he'll shift position or my mind will wander and I'll lose it. The majority of the times I orgasm, I am masturabating in the shower. But I know that isn't the only time I can because I've woken myself up due to climaxing in my sleep. As you can imagine, this is very frustrating. Any advice?


Thank you all in advance, I've been watching this community for ages and you guys are wonderful.

Comments

[loonylupinlover.livejournal.com]

I think my boy is similar in weight to yours, and I'm 140 so that's just about 2x as much. Thanks! I heart it too, hehe. :)

Ehhh, we haven't really attempted it, lol. I used to have a really tall bed and he could stand while I lay on it, but both of us standing hasn't worked out, since his penis hits above my belly button when we stand in front of each other, hahaha. Do you wear massive heels? Or stand on chairs/telephone books/stairs? I *would* like to try it, I'm just not sure how, heh.

[iguanasdefuego.livejournal.com]

LOL, same situation. No phone book. I just stand on my tip toes (really, I could make a ballerina jealous) for the whole feat and bend over (it's kind of doggy style ish...except my hands aren't supporting me). You'll get really awesome calves.

[loonylupinlover.livejournal.com]

Oh! Yes, we've done that one, or at least a variation where I'm over a counter or couch or something. I was thinking of standing but face-to-face... Joy of Sex says it's doable, and I would love to be able to look down and actually see the action going on, hehe, but unless I get stripper heels (like 6 inches or higher) I don't see it happening, sadly.

[iguanasdefuego.livejournal.com]

I really don't think my boyfriend and I could ever accomplish that...just way too many size issues that even stripper heels can't fix.

You should get this book, I forget the title, but it's got 52 position from the kama sutra- one for every week. Some of them are just rediculous, and the titles are awesome. Think "flying white tiger" and "archemedes' screw."