Is it worth a morning after?

[cyanidekoolaid8.livejournal.com]

Alright well I have an extreme tendancy to overreact about almost anything so you can imagine how I deal with after-sex thoughts.

Well today my boyfriend wore a condom, and I got up before he cummed, and well he did and we looked down and we saw that the tip of the condom was still inside me and had been pulled off half way.

Is there anything that should leave me to believe I got some sperm inside me, I'm only extremely concerned because it's in my nature and it's also a week after my period, being my fertile week.

Do you suggest going to planned parenthood tommorow and buying the morning after pill, I'm aware it's about 30 dollars, which I'll obtain somehow, and it'll make me feel like shit. But it's hiding it from my parents which will concern me, do I need to have thier consent? And 30 dollars is a lot for something that might not be nessecery at all. Will my 34 year old sister's prescene be enough or will I need a parent?

Comments

[the-leh.livejournal.com]

I'm unclear about what happened. Did he pull out without ejaculating and the condom was left behind? You say you got up before he cummed? What does that mean?

Regardless, it is possible some semen entered your vagina. Even pre ejaculatory semen can cause pregnancy, although usually it contains no semen...but not always.

From now on though, make sure to have him withdrawl while holding onto the base of the condom, just after ejaculation. It's important to have condoms that fit and to withdrawl before the penis loses even some of the erection, not taking these precautions can cause the condom to slip off.

I think it is worth the MAP. I'd also reccomend using a backup meathod to condoms such as spermacide foam, the Today sponge, a diaphragm, or the pill.

[cyanidekoolaid8.livejournal.com]

I got up before he ejaculated, but the tip of the condom was in me, which is why it went half off.

[cyanidekoolaid8.livejournal.com]

It had spermicidial lubraciant.

[thismeansyou.livejournal.com]

wow so I'm going to planned parenthood tomorrow morning BY MYSELF for the morning after pill and I hadn't even thought about parental consent. you don't need it, I'm pretty sure of it.

[viellen]

That's true...parental consent is not needed to obtain the morning after pill (or any birth control for that matter).

[thismeansyou.livejournal.com]

Thats what I thought! This post threw me for a loop though, I just assumed it was common knowledge.

[cyanidekoolaid8.livejournal.com]

yeah I called, you don't.

[ahota84.livejournal.com]

he didn't ejaculate inside of you and wore a condom? very low chance.

He may have leaked some precum..but wouldn't that be all the way inside the condom tip?

[ahota84.livejournal.com]

also...in many states, the Take Charge Plan at PP gives you the morning after pill (among many other services) for FREE. Most students qualify for it.

[thismeansyou.livejournal.com]

College AND high school students?

[ahota84.livejournal.com]

regardless of what status you are as a student, it has to do with how much money you personally make.

In high school and in college I used it. I lived with my parents in high school, but because I only worked at an after school job, I fit into their bracket of needing free services.

It rocked.

[cyanidekoolaid8.livejournal.com]

Yes they told me this after, but apperently I might have to pay for an appointment, which is like 40.

[thismeansyou.livejournal.com]

whaaat! oh man. what state are you in?

[cyanidekoolaid8.livejournal.com]

Mass, I'm going to the one on commwealth ave. in Boston, the lady I talked to was a conselour though, the appointment line is closed after 6.

[aechei.livejournal.com]

it doesnt sound like you need it. there is no sperm in precum unless he had recently orgasmed and then immediately had sex. he didnt come in you, and the condom didnt go all the way inside you, so anything in it should not have made it into you. but next time do make sure he holds onto it.

[moochar.livejournal.com]

You shouldn't need parental consent if you decide to get the EC. I'd at least call PP & ask their opinion if you should get it or not. I really don't think you have that much of a risk personally, from what I'm understand of your post. The condom only slipped slightly & your boyfriend hadn't ejaculated yet, right? If so there is very little risk, in my non-professional opinion. However if you are worried get the EC, it is always better to be safe than sorry.

Also, while you are at PP, I'd suggest looking into some type of hormonal birth control. You can still use condoms if you wish, but the hormonal BC could be used in case of any type of condom failure. That way, you wouldn't have to worry if something like this happens in the future.

[lovekaty.livejournal.com]

EC is pretty effective, so if you think you're possibly at risk, you might want to do it. First, here's some info from the Planned Parenthood Website, so you know exactly what's happening and what to expect afterwards if you take Emergency Contraceptives.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/medicalinfo/ec/pub-emergency-contraception.xml

And here's a goverment link. http://www.4woman.gov/faq/econtracep.htm

Still, from what you described it sounds like it wan't likely that his semen got into your vagina. I'm not entirely clear on what was going on when he came though.

According to www.advocatesforyouth.org, women under 18 (as I assume you are) can get EC without parents' consent, although some doctors may require consent anyway. Still, I'd suggest you bring your sister along for support. Having a trusted adult there can help you feel more comfortable. You may also want to include your boyfriend.

Good luck!