need advice

[lane4.livejournal.com]

I just found out that I'm pregnant. I want to keep the baby but I don't want to tell the father about it. The reason is that he isn't my boyfriend, he actually is engaged to someone else...I know, it's bad that I slept with him, but that's in the past and I want to make the best of the situation from now on. He does a lot of drugs, he's not a responsible person in my opinion and I don't want him to be involved with my kid. I know he would not be happy to hear I'm pregnant anyway. Can I just refuse to state the father's name? Will there be legal problems or something? Do you think it's ethical to do that or do I have to "give him a chance"?

I don't know, I'm confused right now but my instinct is just to keep him away :(

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[punk-is-so-dead.livejournal.com]

No ... I'm not saying SHE should tell his fiancee. But once she tells him, it's out of her hands. If he chooses not to tell hsi fiancee, that's his doing, his mistake, his secret ...