Vagina? Lesbian anyone?

[garygetsnolove.livejournal.com]

I want to clear up some things that I had asked a new member who happens to be a fabulously patient and kind person.

I asked her if she was a true lesbian.

I want to elaborate on that, just for a minute.

No one should ever have to prove how much of a lesbian they are. Right? I totally agree that no one but You can decide what you would like to call yourself in regards to your sexuality.

But does your vagina know?

I mean, if you are the type of lesbian that cannot get turned on mentally by a man, is your vagina gonna know, and is it gonna be more tense?

In the same aspect, if you're a lesbian who can also enjoy sex with men, mentally and physically, is your vagina down with penis?

Does your vagina have a direct link with your brain when it comes to this stuff, and does it have more say in how you feel about having sex than we ever thought?

One time I "did stuff" with a guy. I mean, nothing involving vaginal sex, but other stuff. And although my body was aroused, my brain was not. Im a lesbian, and have known this for a long time. So I know that I could probably have sex with a guy, and I could probably be turned on. But I think my vagina might put up a stink. It might tighten, tense up and not let the penis in. It might scream in pain afterwards. Is this possible?

Thanks for your comments, in advance.

Comments

Re: My buck fiddy

[velmaodella.livejournal.com]

Gay male porn turns me on as well. The only rationale I can come up with is this: Porn is much easier to find than erotica. And porn is largely geared towards a male audience. A lot of times I have a hard time buying the woman, as in either she looks too much like a fantasy or I'm not convinced she's turned on and enjoying herself. Lesbian porn is full of make-up and long red nails and high heeled shoes -- all of which a lesbian might be into although I've never met one of them (and as far as all the women I've ever met, no two ultra-femmey women have had interest in each other). So the only porn easy to find, where both partners convincingly portray pleasure, is gay male porn. But, truth be told, any visual image of two people I find to be attractive getting it on and enjoying it turns me on.

Re: My buck fiddy

[garygetsnolove.livejournal.com]

Yeah no shit huh? Lesbian porn is too unbelievable. I hate it infact. I dont think gay male porn turns me on either, but I do get what you're saying. I would love to find a tasteful lesbian porn or whatever that actually did it for me.

Re: My buck fiddy

[firinel.livejournal.com]

http://www.goodvibrations.com has some that was created by lesbians for lesbians (or bisexuals, I suppose), so one can assume that as far as believability goes, they're more likely to have hit the mark then the porn that is made by straight men for straight men.

Re: My buck fiddy

[isolt.livejournal.com]

Go to SIR Video (http://www.sirvideo.com) for porn made by dykes, for dykes. It's good stuff ;)

But, truth be told, any visual image of two people I find to be attractive getting it on and enjoying it turns me on.

me too :D