can you get pregnant from fingering + precum around ovulation (and another question)

[kadye.livejournal.com]

hi, i'm new to the community and feel really silly asking this but what is the likelyhood of getting pregnant from fingering with precum present on my partners fingers during the peak of my fertile days? this happened on aug. 11th and i feel and look very bloated, my breasts are also sore to the touch so i'm a bit concerned.

also, completely unrelated but my friend is also stressing out about something aswell and i didn't know what to tell her. she took birth control for 21 days then decided she wanted to get off it for good, so she stopped and got her withdrawl (i think that's what you call it?) bleed a few days after but she was wondering when to expect her next period that isn't a withdrawl. apparently she'sbeen having pms symptoms but i didnt know what to tell her. any info would be great

thanks in advance, sorry for the two questions in one post.

Weird, Intense Cramps

[nightmer.livejournal.com]

This morning I woke up with the worst cramps of my life.  I could barely roll over in bed and started sweating when I tried to move.  I don't normally get period cramps, but these were far sharper than normal for me and sort of included my uterus, cervix and ass.  I occasionally get cramps a week before my period, but even that is a week away for me, so I don't think they're related.  It was reminescent of when I get my cervix tweaked during sex, but I haven't used anything internally for a few days and this feeling was much more intense and widespread.

After about an hour of lying in bed I felt better and the cramps dulled down to just sort of a twinge. Then tonight I had sex and felt fine, until a few minutes after when I could barely stand yet again.  Each time the pain is accompanied by dizziness and light nausea.  This time it only lasted a few minutes before it dulled, but I could barely move when it hit.  I've never felt anything like this before.  Any ideas about what this could be?  I'll definitely try to track down a doctor if it comes back, but it hits so suddenly I'm not sure what will help.