Orgasms

[margery-kempe.livejournal.com]

This is a question specifically for the females out there (although males are welcome to answer as well :) )

I was wondering on average, how long does it take you to orgasm?

Also, I've been having sex for a year and a half (with the same boyfriend) and I have not orgasmed even once! We have a very sexual relationship, and I feel very comfortable with him. I haven't been dwelling on it either, so I don't think the issue is that I'm "trying too hard". I enjoy sex regardless, I would just love to experience an orgasm for once. I'm just wondering if anyone else had trouble experiencing an orgasm and any tips to help out.

Thanks in advance! :)

skin tag?

[for-keepsx.livejournal.com]

so, my post leep session with my gyno kinda hurt and was swift in the process. he had my lay in the table thing and put the speculumm in kinda fast and it hurt and whipped it out. there's this little ball of skin on the entrance to my vagina i noticed about six months ago, and now it hurts when i sit or touch it. what is it? i had this ashy flake discharge a few days after the surgery and now its gone, but that foul odor is still there. should i go to my regular gp and have her check it out, or is there anything i can do about it?

sore girly parts

[sunshinesounds.livejournal.com]

Hi. I woke up this morning and my girly parts were extremely sore. I am extremely puzzled as to how this could possibly happen,as...
I am a virgin
and
I do not own a vibrator,so it couldn't be caused by that.

I should be having my period right now. But all I've seen is a tiny little amount of menstrual blood[that's what it looks like anyways]. No cramps,or anything.

Just a very sore cooch.

So I hopped in the shower,logic being " well, showers sometimes ease ab cramps,perhaps it'll clear this up!"

It didn't. I now have ice down there,and have eaten mega amounts of chocolate in the hopes that I can think the soreness away.

Too bad it hasn't happened yet.

Any ideas as to why my cooch is randomly sore?

Alesse

[boobirdsfly.livejournal.com]

Anyone on here taking Alesse ?
I know the pill is different for everyone but i'd still like to hear your feedback on it...
Weight gain , side effects, sex drive ?
Thanks !

Brazilian Wax in Fayetteville NC?

[babity.livejournal.com]

Hello, I have a couple questions. First off, what is the safty status of a brazilian wax in the 3rd trimester of pregnancy? I am hoping to get it done in my 34th week, since its starting to get hard to reach around the belly, and I want to be smooth when I go into labor, for 2 reasons, there will be a ton of people messing around down there, and in case I get an episiotomy(sp), they won't have to deal with it then.

Also, does anyone have a clue where in Fayetteville NC does Brazilian waxing? No one advertises it in the phone book, and I wanted to have some referals anyhow, I think you can agree that is something you want someone who is good at thier job doing!

Thanks in advance!

one BC pill too many

[electracide.livejournal.com]

It's exam week, and I'm not really functioning properly -- I just took 2 birth control pills within a couple of hours of eachother, not looking at the day and not remembering I took one already.

So. Do I skip one tomorrow then or take one tomorrow and continue on normally? Is there such a thing as too much?

I'm on Mircette, if it makes a difference. I also skipped the bleeding week 'cuz I didn't want to deal with my period during exams, and now I've got break through bleeding like CRAZY.

How long does break through usually last? Till I suck it up and take the placebos? Will it taper off after a few days? It seems to be getting worse.

Are IUDs safe for younger women?

[somethingirl.livejournal.com]

I can't take the pill (or any hormone-using contraceptive medication) because it will make me die (found that one out the hard way) and I was looking at the website for intra-uterine devices and I thought it sounded good only it made a point that it was especially for women who have already had a child...

I'm 19 and ain't never had no baby yet and I was wondering if this would disqualify me from getting a little plastic T shoved up inside my baby machine?

Urinary Tract Infections

[modestarrogance.livejournal.com]

Hello All,

I read the entries on UTI's but I found all the same information I already knew. So heres my question. I have had a UTI before and thus I know thats what I have now. Ive been dealing with it for a month now and I havent been to the doctors because I dont have the money or the insurance to cover it. (im still paying off 700$ bill from the last doctors visit for a UTI) so...my question is, is there anyway besides antibiotics that I can get rid of this. Or is there any over the counter pills I can take.

Right now I live off of cranberry juice and uristat to deal with the pain...but I dont want to wait much longer and have this turn to a kidney infection.

Thanks in advance.

sterilization community deleted

[quatre-vingts.livejournal.com]

Anyone know what happened to tubal_ligation? Are there similar communities out there you'd recommend?

Virginity opinions

[classical-wolf.livejournal.com]

I was talking with a friend tonight, and we were discussing virginity. I asked if there was a way to give your virginity physically, and then emotionally. I clarified that I don't count what happened with my first boyfriend to be sex....I just asked to feel him inside me, and there was no feeling behind it - hence not considering my virginity to be taken. The next person I was with, was the person who raped me, and I didn't want to think of the person as having taken my virginity, but that I gave it to my current boyfriend the first time we had sex, because I truly consented and wanted to give it to him. What do you guys think about virginity?

upside down instead?

[racrichton.livejournal.com]

Okay, I feel silly asking this, but I really don't know.

I'm using an instead cup for the first time today and it occured to me, that I don't know which side is the right side to be facing upwards.... Should the cup be attached to the side of the ring facing up, or the side facing down?

what to expect during ultrasound

[gizard.livejournal.com]

Hello all.

background: I am 20 years old and have never been pregnant. I had a paragard IUD inserted and it expelled. No good. I had a mirena inserted after that and so far it's still in (and I have no side effects! much better for me than combined hormonal bc). Since I'm at a higher risk for expulsion due to my age, nulliparity, and previous expulsion, my doc is having me get an external pelvic ultrasound to check the placement.

Has anyone had a non-ob. pelvic ultrasound? Why do I have to drink 32oz of water beforehand? Can you feel anything when they do it?

Just wondering what to expect. Any info is appreciated.

Taking birth control early to skip period

[warin.livejournal.com]

Hey guys, I wanted to know how safe it is to take birth control pills early in order to skip my period. I am in a long distance relationship with my bf and he's visitng me the week I get my period in november. I want to be able to make love and not bleed all over him, so is it wise to take my pills early? Are there any nasty side effects I should know about?

birth control weight issue

[bustystclare.livejournal.com]

SO my birth control has made me gain 25 lbs. i WAS on "estrostep" and i changed it to levilite (or something) at the gyno. anyway, my question is does anyone know how long it's going to take to lose all this water weight? i'm horribly depressed. i should have never gone to a higher dose. :(