Anal sex

[retronymical.livejournal.com]

I realize I just posted today, but I have another question. I hope this is alright. I looked for similar posts, however I have a bit more information/questions surrounding mine.

I am really hoping to have anal sex with my boyfriend--it's sort of a Christmas present to both of us as we've both been wanting it for a bit. Now, what I would like to know are the risks of anal sex without a condom. First and foremost I should say that we are NOT going to go from anal to vaginal and that we are both free of STDs. I'm not letting him anywhere near that until he is cleaned. What is the best way he could clean himself after anal? Also, before anal I plan on giving myself an enema. We plan on using plenty of lube too (most likely Astroglide).

Now I have had anal sex with a partner before without a condom or an enema--and I got a yeast infection a couple of times. However, that person wasn't exactly cleanly and was a bit abusive so I'd prefer not to talk about that. I am however used to the aftermath of having to death with sperm after ejaculation so that isn't really a problem.

Basically I want to know the risks and whether an enema is effective at preventing some of them. I have one last question as well--is it possible for women to orgasm from anal sex? Any first had experiences? Thanks.

Comments

[knittinggoddess.livejournal.com]

Cleaning: Antibacterial soap, followed by some sort of genital-friendly moisturizer? I normally dislike antibacterial soap, but anal cleanup seems like the perfect place for that. The moisturizer is important because overdrying can cause cracks in the skin, which means the skin is no longer protective.

Lube: If condoms aren't in the picture, and neither are any cheap silicone toys (they contain latex), then try coconut oil! It's also a great moisturizer for the genitals. I've never used the coconut oil for anal, because we use barriers for that. But I love it as PIV lube, and have heard rave reviews of it as anal lube.

Orgasms: FWIW, I squirt with anal penetration, and can totally feel my g-spot being stimulated through the rectal walls.

[retronymical.livejournal.com]

Squirt? That's really cool. Thanks for the moisturizer idea! I want to keep him as healthy as possible. The first person I had anal with it was very uncomfortable, but I was really pressured into it each time. However with my current boyfriend I am comfortable enough to have multiple orgasms during PIV which has never happened before with any other guy so I think anal will be tons of fun.

[okamikaze.livejournal.com]

Just throwing my two cents in.

I've tried coconut oil for anal and it didn't really end too well. Granted, my butt likes to pretend it's a pretty princess sometimes and ANYTHING hurts like a mother, but I found that coconut oil isn't thick enough for anal plus it absorbs into the skin eventually, so you have to reapply often. It's great for everything else, but I prefer silicone lube for anal. It's thicker, doesn't absorb, and doesn't get tacky!

And re: orgasms, I totally can come from anal. The bf is trying to figure out how to make me squirt with it. Hahaha