Anal sex

[retronymical.livejournal.com]

I realize I just posted today, but I have another question. I hope this is alright. I looked for similar posts, however I have a bit more information/questions surrounding mine.

I am really hoping to have anal sex with my boyfriend--it's sort of a Christmas present to both of us as we've both been wanting it for a bit. Now, what I would like to know are the risks of anal sex without a condom. First and foremost I should say that we are NOT going to go from anal to vaginal and that we are both free of STDs. I'm not letting him anywhere near that until he is cleaned. What is the best way he could clean himself after anal? Also, before anal I plan on giving myself an enema. We plan on using plenty of lube too (most likely Astroglide).

Now I have had anal sex with a partner before without a condom or an enema--and I got a yeast infection a couple of times. However, that person wasn't exactly cleanly and was a bit abusive so I'd prefer not to talk about that. I am however used to the aftermath of having to death with sperm after ejaculation so that isn't really a problem.

Basically I want to know the risks and whether an enema is effective at preventing some of them. I have one last question as well--is it possible for women to orgasm from anal sex? Any first had experiences? Thanks.

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[retronymical.livejournal.com]

Also, with the person who had gotten HPV from anal--were they sure it was from anal? Or had they done PIV or oral beforehand? To clarify, can anal cause HPV (if you know this) or did the person already have HPV and then transmit it through anal sex?

[pjvilar.livejournal.com]

The cismale partner had HPV and transmitted to my friend through anal sex, as she has put it to me.

[retronymical.livejournal.com]

Oh okay, so there is probably not so much of a risk of anal causing any more than bacterial infections, in that case. Thanks so much for your help.

[x-hypatia-x.livejournal.com]

Anal cannot cause HPV--there's nothing you can do sexually that "causes" a viral infection, just things that may transmit an already-existing infection in one partner to another, and, sometimes, things that may cause a bacterial infection (like getting fecal matter into the vagina).

[retronymical.livejournal.com]

Thank you, I did not know that. I'm a bit ignorant about viral infections. I do understand the risks of bacterial infections.