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[screamingvenus.livejournal.com]

some dude tried to tell me that the g-spot doesn't exist.

how does he know this? because he's a nurse.



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[tyrsalvia.livejournal.com]

Any nurse that's trying to look for my g-spot better have a damn good lawyer.

hahaha.

[justbepatient.livejournal.com]

amen to that!

[sadiedecayed.livejournal.com]

bullllshit. <3.

typical male. ;)

[thevargasgirl.livejournal.com]

well you can tell him i said *I* have a fucking g-spot.
its still one of those "mysteries" in medicine. not everyone believes that it exists. some people love it, not everyone enjoys g-spot stimulation, and not everyone feels anything at all there.
just like clitorises. the female body is like that.
-=t

[revjim.livejournal.com]

The G-Spot is one of those "mysteries" of the sexual world, much like (and sometimes coupled with) female ejaculation. Some people buy it, believe it, swear they've experienced it, and would be more than happy to show you (if given the right woman and the right man). I say this because, I am in that camp. However, there are others who do not beleive. At the risk of being biased, I even say those people are skeptical, or too self-conscious.

There are a few who, try as they might, have never experienced g-spot stimulation or female ejaculation. They honestly tried... and just can't... or wont. However, most of the people who claim that it doesn't exist, didn't really give it more than 5 minutes. It's kind of like.... surfing... I guess (I have a feeling this will be a bad analogy). If there weren't thousands of people on surf boards for you to watch every day in order to determine that yes, surfing can be done, if given a board and a giant wave, just about anyone might be inclined to believe that it can't be done. However, with time, and patience, and helpful words from those who CAN do it... you might actually figure it out. The only problem with the G-Spot is, there's no way to prove people aren't faking it, or that it isn't all in their heads. Additionally, people don't generally do it in public, so the exposure is much more limited.

Your nurse friend is right. If you look at a chart of the anatomy of the human body, you will not see any part labelled "g-spot". So if you want to take it from that stand point then, no, it does not exist.

But I think there are plenty of very happy women and their very happy partners that would be willing to argue the other way.

[bheansidhe.livejournal.com]

The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate." Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he changed his tune. To our amazement, the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina... (http://www.femalesquirt.com/medical.htm)

I believe the consensus is that the G spot, if visible, is seen at the cellular level, and not visible in a gross anatomy exam. Tests have proven the ejaculate to be similar to male prostatic fluid.It's hypothesized that the G-spot is either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or a gland or series of glands that produces lubrication. (http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/gspotfaq.html)

Still more info. (http://www.myvag.net/gspot.shtml)

[revjim.livejournal.com]

Excellent information! Thanks!

[infiniteblue25.livejournal.com]

my mom's a nurse too and that's the sillyest thing I've ever heard. let him have a partner that squirts a big load and I think he'll change his tune. I would ask him if he believed in female ejaculation and if he does ask him what function or system causes that. It seems to be VERY closely linked with g-spot orgasm. I've heard some people including doctors saying ejaculate is urine in the past too when it's clearly not.

[septembergrrl.livejournal.com]

I've never been able to feel mine. I mean, I believe other women when they say they have one, but mine doesn't seem to be as sensitive as some people's.


It just goes to show the most important sex organ is the brain.

[babybloodheart.livejournal.com]

I think it is just a big mystery...
I remember when I was younger reading in a womans magazine that there is a G-spot however there is skin that covers it over which doesn't reveal the G-spot untill mid-thirties.
Then getting a bit older I was told there was non at all, if there is a G-spot I have never been able to find mine, all just squishy stuff up there, certainly nothing that feels good.
But then I thought that maybe the G-spot was the spot between the folks of the clit...
Now I just don't know, I know that women say they have one and seem very sure about it, it's talked about a lot in how-to guides and educational sites, however I have yet to find mine and don't know exactly what it is.
Some people seem totaly point blank determined that it doesn't exist - normaly men, I think they are just jelouse of those who have them, I know I am :o(

[rockstarbob.livejournal.com]

There's an article about the G-Spot on our website, in the Articles section. It explains the biology of it.

[dafadddu.livejournal.com]

I've had g-spot orgasms. I find them difficult to achieve, as it has to be just the right kind of stimulation couples with clitoral stimulation, but clitoral stimulation seems to override it, so it's a very, very delicate balance.

I'm not too bothered about having them, myself, but they can be an alternative if I feel like it.

There is a very large difference (for me anyway, don't know what other women feel) between a clit orgasm and a g-spot orgasm. G-spot is very deep, almost like a full-body thing, while clitoral is very localised, but much more acute. Unfortunately, the two kind kill each other. Because my clit orgasm is so much more acute in feeling, it overpowers my g-spot feeling, and trying to concentrate on my g-spot makes my clit feel dull.

So, uhh, in short, he's full of shit.

[foreverlost18.livejournal.com]

this is such bullshit! and this person is a nurse? whoa. go back to medical school!! The Graferberg spot "g-spot" is located ont the front wall of the vagnial area, midway between the pubic bone and the cervix and the vagnial side of the urethra. most people probably don't think it's there cuz it varies in size, from the size of a bean to a half dollar..lol. ok i'm done now.

[stinkythecat.livejournal.com]

Nurses don't go to medical school. They go to nursing school.

[lizzvoltage.livejournal.com]

...I dont think that was necessary?

[stinkythecat.livejournal.com]

Yes it was. Considering medical school is entirely more lengthy and in depth than nursing school is, considering after two years you can become a nurse and it takes eight or so to become a doctor. There's a big difference.

No one disputed. That there is a big difference.

[lizzvoltage.livejournal.com]

And I would like to sincerely apologise to all doctors offended or otherwise emotionally damaged by this thread.

Medical vs. nursing school had absolutely nothing to do with the conversation. You didn't need to get all snippy cos she mixed up, especially about something so irrelevant to the original subject. End of communication.