Oral Sex vs Sensitive Nosed Boyfriend

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

Hi everyone. I just joined today, and I read thru pages of postings here, and didn't really find an answer to my question. It may come off as making my boyfriend sound horrible, or make me sound icky, but he's really not, and I'm not either...it's just this one issue we (I) have:
He rarely ever has oral sex with me. And I do it often for him. He says he just has a really sensitive nose, and the smell puts him off. :( This worries me, because I use feminine wash and bathe on a regular basis, so I'm pretty sure I'm healthy. I was wondering if there is a better wash out there that can make the scent...I dunno..something he might prefer...like citrus...(my mother pretty much never explained things to me when I was younger and had to discover the joys of menstruation, wash, and sex all by myself without any direction, and I don't really have any friends to consult about this). I just really miss oral sex. My last boyfriend was all about it, and never seemed to mind my scent. So I figure it must be an issue of the current one.

Sorry if this was covered some place that I missed. And thanks for taking the time to read. :)

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[azrielle.livejournal.com]

Have you noticed that your scent is different in the past few months at all?

I was dating a new boy a few years ago and noticed that my vagina gradually started smelling stronger. I didn't feel burning, or have an extra amount of discharge...everything looked alright and I had no STDs but what I didn't know and found out after a my yearly papsmear is that I had Bacterial Vaginosis. It's a fairly common infection and can be triggered if your boy's Ph level and your Ph level don't jive that well together. It might be something to think about? Who knows? I mentioned it to my boy cause I noticed the smell and noticed that he wasn't going downtown too often anymore, he agreed that there was a stronger smell(but hadn't said anything to hurt my feelings)... it was cleared up quickly with meds, I started using condoms with that guy (since I seemed to be "allergic" to his semen)and was getting me some oral loving again in no time.

If everything is cool and you have no infection then showering before, the baby wipes and cutting out the douching might help. I used to douche and it didn't do anything for me but make me taste unclean in my opinion, and in fact the douching made my bv worse! Maybe even trimming your pubic hair could help, if you don't already shave...hair tends to hold scents...

Whatever you do, or don't do...I will send happy oral sex vibes your way! ;)

Re: no one has mentioned this but...

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

Wow, thanks so much for the friendly advice and the fantastic vibes being sent, heheh! I do shave, and I am going to look into perhaps BV being the culprit if the baby wipes don't seem to solve my woes. Thanks !