Oral Sex vs Sensitive Nosed Boyfriend

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

Hi everyone. I just joined today, and I read thru pages of postings here, and didn't really find an answer to my question. It may come off as making my boyfriend sound horrible, or make me sound icky, but he's really not, and I'm not either...it's just this one issue we (I) have:
He rarely ever has oral sex with me. And I do it often for him. He says he just has a really sensitive nose, and the smell puts him off. :( This worries me, because I use feminine wash and bathe on a regular basis, so I'm pretty sure I'm healthy. I was wondering if there is a better wash out there that can make the scent...I dunno..something he might prefer...like citrus...(my mother pretty much never explained things to me when I was younger and had to discover the joys of menstruation, wash, and sex all by myself without any direction, and I don't really have any friends to consult about this). I just really miss oral sex. My last boyfriend was all about it, and never seemed to mind my scent. So I figure it must be an issue of the current one.

Sorry if this was covered some place that I missed. And thanks for taking the time to read. :)

Comments

[pillu.livejournal.com]

I have to agree with this poster, If your so worried about your smell, stop using the feminine wash and douches etc. they make you smell worse. Sleep without underwear, to let your vulva breathe, smell yourself.....he may just be using it as an excuse. He could be smelling the purfume, or he might just be weird.

But if you want oral, and hes not giving it up, I wouldnt be giving it to him if im not receiving.

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

: Snickers : Very good points. I sleep nude, and I do believe that there will be a cease fire on all oral happenings until some is returned.

And the wash is already in the trash. ;)

[pillu.livejournal.com]

:D Sleeping nude rocks........I was taught at a young age, never wear underwear to bed, it makes you smell and bras are bad for your breasts when you wear them to bed. YAY mum :D

Also, I just thought of this, sometimes when I dont wipe myself properly after going to the bathroom i get a little smelly, maybe you should use unscented baby wipes instead of toilet paper to prevent smellies.

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

Oh yaaah....See now? Crap like this is what pisses me off about my mother...She never told me a thing! I always wondered why there were unscented baby wipes in her bathroom, ARGH! :: glares and stomps off :: I'm 22 friggin' years old and have to find this out from lovely people in a lj community, what crap. Thanks so much for shedding some light on things. Everyone has been ever so responsive and helpful! :)

[pillu.livejournal.com]

I mostly use them because I'm a clean freak. I ussualy wipe with one before I think i might be getting anything from my fiance hehe. Just to ensure I smell fresh and look fresh.

[xvmoonchildvx.livejournal.com]

well, I greatly appreciate the tips. I'll be utilizing everything I've learned immediately! :)

[pillu.livejournal.com]

good luck!

[ourika.livejournal.com]

That unscented baby wipes thing isn’t a huge, commonly passed on thing by moms. I use it. I started using it by accident, though. I lived with my sister (who had a baby), so we always had baby wipes around the house. We used them for everything because they were always there. When I moved to a dorm room, I kept a box on my desk. I used it to wipe my hands since there was no sink readily available if I was eating chips. Iused it to clean the soda that someone spilled on my floor. Etc. And it just sort of ended up that I used it after masterbation one day. I was so happy :-) When I got my own place, I put a box in the bathroom.

Since that first time after masterbation, I started using it after sexual encounters. Every partner that I’ve introduced the idea to has thought it was great and wished they’d thought of it sooner! *giggles* There are several women out there now happily sharing the idea with their newest partners. Yay to babywipes.

If I think I may be getting amorous soon, the next time I use the bathroom, I wash my genitals with some water from the faucet (no soap). Sort of rinse ‘em down. And if it’s later in the day, I’ll also change my panties.

I’ve noticed that using various kinds of pads and such tend to make my smell stronger – sometimes to a point that even I don’t like. I think it’s whatever is in the pads reacting with my body. Plain cotton panties (or at least cotton crotches) may also affect you.

I’ve also been told that certain foods (I can’t think of them) will affect your taste/smell. I don’t know how true it is, but citrus is said to be good and garlic and coffee and such are said to be bad. I gave up coffee. Sadness ensued. I drink it once every few weeks now to maek me happy (it’s not a smell thing, it’s a tummy thing that involves needing to take pills in order to survive my every now and then coffee experience). You’d have to REALLY want to make a change in order to miss that yummy, dark goodness!

[angeleyes-05.livejournal.com]

I agree..sometimes when I come home after school and go pee, I'll smell fine. But then after like ten or twenty minutes, I begin to get a fishy smell. I guess it's because sometimes I don't wipe myself good after I go to the bathroom. Good point!