Why can't I finish/come?

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No matter how hard I try, or how much time is spent, either with my boyfriend or by myself, I can't seem to finish/come.

I get really close I think, my body shakes and I get hot and sweat, it starts feeling like I'm going to explode, to the point of discomfort....yet...no come. I've varied techniques: speeding up makes it uncomfortable, slowing down just prolongs the excitement; I can't seem to find a happy medium.

Boyfriend takes his time and is really concerned with making me happy, so I'm starting to sense that he feels...not so good...about not getting me to come. In return, I feel bad, though I can't help it.

Anyone else have this problem? What are some tips to help get me to finish?

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[spiffygirlx.livejournal.com]

I've attempted just a few different ways, so it's possible that that's it. It's a nuisance though because my boyfriend wants me to help him get me to finish...while I'm like, honey I don't even know how.