Too wet?

[speckled-hen.livejournal.com]

This is probably the opposite problem to most people, but when I get aroused I get too wet. As in, I will produce enough of my own lube to not need any extra if we have sex anywhere else, as it were.

I know in part this is a good thing but at the same time it's very annoying for things like my partner fingering/masturbating me or having penetrative sex as there's literally no friction! I've always been like this so I guess I've learned how to handle myself but it's begun to really annoy me. It's got to the point that my partner loses his erection whenever he gets inside me because there's no friction there, and the other night we were fooling around and I just couldn't come because it was all too slick. It's never been a problem before, other than guys mentioning in passing that I get very wet, but with my current partner it seems like a huge issue and my sex life is suffering because of it!

Is there anything I can do or take to reduce the amount of wetness I produce?

Comments

[terrorlynn.livejournal.com]

Adding my voice to the chorus of "me too!"'s. It gets so damn frustrating sometimes, that i have literally asked lovers to pretty much sneak sex up on me so that at least for a little bit, my lady bits are too shocked with the awesome attention to get too slip-and-slide-esque. I have become the master of the mid-sex, position change wipe with my hand/towel/sheet/anything more absorbent than my lovers face/bits. Drives me crazy sometimes, though :(

[skeas.livejournal.com]

I agree with this! I'm not too wet all the time (my vag likes to be fickle), but we always keep a sex towel by the bed. When it starts getting too wet, I just wipe it off. And somehow the act of getting fingered tends to dry me out a bit, so my boyfriend will do that before sex.

[laisah.livejournal.com]

Haha. this is too funny. I'm the master of mid switch, hide the towel routines too! I say keep a towel handy, I wouldn't recommend medications unless you are really really fed up with it. Then I'd go for the allergy medicines ((or alcohol))