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Soooo I have about zero experience with sex. I've made out with guys, and that's it, until now.

Recently, I just started sort of maybe kind of seeing this boy, and we've been fooling around. It's all fine and dandy and lovely, except for the fact that I'm kind of self conscious about my pubic hair. I don't trim or shave or wax or anything, since I've never had a need to before, and now I'm super worried he's going to think I'm super gross or hairy.

This is exacerbated by the fact that every time we start getting intense and a little more "hands-on" with the making out, he says that he really wants to go down on me. He's probably said this a million times now, and I am so freaked out that if I say yes he'll be totally squicked out by the hair.

I'm not THAT hairy of a person: it's not like a jungle down there or anything, but I just want to trim and make it a little neater, but I have NO IDEA how to or where to even begin or what it's supposed to look like.




...so, yes, this is my neurotic, over-thinking side showing through. Help?

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[eatmorepi.livejournal.com]

This was so me before my first time too. I ended up asking him, and he said he didn't mind but it's "easier when it's bare" or something to that effect. I wound up shaving my labia and leaving some on top. Eventually I just started shaving all of it.

Now I wax but it's truly just my personal preference. I've grown it out a few times and he doesn't seem to mind either way. I think it is a bit more pleasurable for him when he goes down on me for it to be smooth, and I get that - I don't like kissing his stubbly face as much either =P