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Nov. 28th, 2008 09:24 pm
[identity profile] hastoknow.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] vaginapagina
Soooo I have about zero experience with sex. I've made out with guys, and that's it, until now.

Recently, I just started sort of maybe kind of seeing this boy, and we've been fooling around. It's all fine and dandy and lovely, except for the fact that I'm kind of self conscious about my pubic hair. I don't trim or shave or wax or anything, since I've never had a need to before, and now I'm super worried he's going to think I'm super gross or hairy.

This is exacerbated by the fact that every time we start getting intense and a little more "hands-on" with the making out, he says that he really wants to go down on me. He's probably said this a million times now, and I am so freaked out that if I say yes he'll be totally squicked out by the hair.

I'm not THAT hairy of a person: it's not like a jungle down there or anything, but I just want to trim and make it a little neater, but I have NO IDEA how to or where to even begin or what it's supposed to look like.




...so, yes, this is my neurotic, over-thinking side showing through. Help?

/tl;dr

Date: 2008-11-29 02:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trbulnt-spnstr.livejournal.com
I can understand your nerves! When I first started getting more physical with people I had no clue what to do with my pubic hair. I started shaving bc the person I was sleeping with liked it even though I didn't at all. It didn't feel good when I was getting touched. Now I trim, and I do it with scissors not an electric razor, (although both work great! I'm just sharing my personal experience). I like trimming bc I know when I go down on a girl it's sometimes hard to get her clit if there's too much hair there-it's just not that sexy to push pubic hair away from your face for me, (although some people don't mind at all which is also awesome!).

I know it can be really scary and nerve racking to talk to someone about what they like, and what you're willing to do, but I would try to do that. First, I would think about what i was willing to do, and give the person those options. Whatever works for you though!

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