vaginal to anal?

[thecoolbanana.livejournal.com]

I don't know if this counts for VP but I just wanna throw it out there and see if anyone can help. Everyone here is so nice and and I can't thank you guys enough for past help.

So my fwb and I want to change things up...we always have sex, just kept the tush out of the picture. we both have been curious about it recently. Ive read many memoirs and have heard many horror stories that entail anal sex..including deficating on oneself/on their partner.

Is this true? Is there a way to prevent it? ....should I just stick to vaginal sex?

Comments

[pygmybugs.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I read that bit, and on top of the drunkenness (which tends to send my bowels into an uproar), it sounds like he basically gave her an astroglide enema. I'm sure it worked as well as/better than a regular enema.

Lots of lube, I've found (though I've only tried it a few times, and it's not really my bag) that "pausing in the doorway" -- stopping when you've juuuust gotten the sphincter involved, give everything time to relax so it doesn't hurt.