Stupid, stupid boy...

[individuality86.livejournal.com]

Since my last post, I ended up telling my b/f about the possibiliy of the both of us passing some kind of infection back and forth, since something always goes wrong with me "down there" every time we have sex. Can you BELIEVE that he doesn't wanna go to the doctor with me? Something about him not wanting to hear any bad news. Ugh! THEN he had the nerve to compare me to his ex, saying "How come my ex never had all of these problems?" Um, MAYBE BECAUSE WE'RE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE, YOU IDIOT!!! I'm going to the doctor soon [for what I think is B.V...AGAIN...], but I just felt the need to rant about that. Wasn't he being a tad bit insensitive for saying that to me?! :-

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(frozen) Maintainer Note

[frolicnaked.livejournal.com]

Hi, _knivesxout. I'm writing on behalf of the VP Team to express concern that the attitude and/or wording above do not foster what we consider safe space (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_is_.22Safe_Space.22.3F_What_does_.22empowerment.22_mean.3F) in this community.

While you're certainly entitled to disagree with the OP's partner's attitude and actions, it's important to express your concern respectfully. VP is not the forum to tell the OP how to proceed with her relationship. Telling her she should "dump that asshole" does not respect her choice in the matter.

Please consider this a warning as well as a friendly reminder to take this opportunity to review VP's policies. You can find more information on safe space (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_is_.22Safe_Space.22.3F_What_does_.22empowerment.22_mean.3F) in our FAQ (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ), as linked here:

--What are VP's rules? (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_are_the_rules.3F)
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You are more than welcome to make a post over in contact_vp or to contact us via email (http://www.vaginapagina.com/contact.php) If you'd like to talk more about this matter or clarify any points; we only ask that you refrain from commenting further here out of respect for the OP. For that reason, replies to this thread will be frozen.

Thank you,
Tori
For the VP Team (http://www.vaginapagina.com/contact.php)
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(frozen) Re: Maintainer Note

[http://users.livejournal.com/_knivesxout/]

uhm everyone else judged him in the same manner, they just didn't use the word 'asshole'. whatever. sorry.

(frozen) Re: Maintainer Note

[frolicnaked.livejournal.com]

As the previous note requested, if you'd like to discuss this further, the appropriate venues for that are via email (mailto:vpteam@vaginapagina.com) or by posting in contact_vp.