Multiple Orgasm Questions
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Hi everyone. I wanted to find out more about something I've been curious about for a while now -- multiple orgasms! I'm wondering a few things, and I'm hoping some of you ladies wouldn't mind spilling your guts. I already asked this over at sextips, but I thought I might get some other perspectives here. Thanks!
How many females out there can have them?
When you have them, do the ones after the first feel different than the first one?
Do they feel different from 'one big orgasm'?
What's the most you can have in one session?
How long do they last?
Did you have to learn how to have multiple orgasms? If so, how did you learn?
For those that have multiple orgasms, do you need to have more than one to feel satisfied?
I'm basically interested because I'm curious :). The more details, the better! Thanks!
How many females out there can have them?
When you have them, do the ones after the first feel different than the first one?
Do they feel different from 'one big orgasm'?
What's the most you can have in one session?
How long do they last?
Did you have to learn how to have multiple orgasms? If so, how did you learn?
For those that have multiple orgasms, do you need to have more than one to feel satisfied?
I'm basically interested because I'm curious :). The more details, the better! Thanks!
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Date: 2007-04-18 05:51 am (UTC)First one is always the best.
No
I've had over 20 in one time having sex...
Few seconds
Learn? No...
I don't even have to have one to be satisfied.
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Date: 2007-04-18 05:24 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-04-18 11:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-04-18 06:04 am (UTC)Not sure about percentages for everyone, but myself for one.
When you have them, do the ones after the first feel different than the first one?
A little. I can feel even more of the tension that was built up dissipating.
Do they feel different from 'one big orgasm'?
Sort of - they feel similar during, but after I can definitely tell that I could go again with the multiples. If I have one huge one I can tell I'm pretty well spent afterward.
What's the most you can have in one session?
Not sure how many I could potentially have, but I have had 5 or so.
How long do they last?
I've had some that go 30 seconds - regardless of orgasm type for me they can last a loonng time. Like a pig's. My fiance remarks on that sometimes, haha.
Did you have to learn how to have multiple orgasms? If so, how did you learn?
I just felt at one point that I could still go and try for another, so I did and it worked. This didn't happen for me until I was in my late teens. It is easier when you're by yourself I think. It's strange, because I used to be a one-orgasm person but I became multi orgasmic over time/as I got more sexually experienced. I think it had a lot to do with getting with a new and sexually better/more exciting partner.
For those that have multiple orgasms, do you need to have more than one to feel satisfied?
Occasionally, which is the downside of it. But if I spend a while working up to one orgasm I can still just have the one big one and feel fine about it. About half the time one is fine, the other half of the time two is best for me (and any more are a bonus).
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Date: 2007-04-18 06:52 am (UTC)I didn't start to really regularly get orgasms until I was 22. Seems like a long time, but hey, that's just me. Anyway, in one night I got up to 10. I used to race to get as many as possible in a shorter time than the last time. They each felt really sharp, like lightening, and were short. Now, I get maybe one or two, but they are so different. Longer, more intense, full-bodied, if that makes sense. Not like it wasn't my whole body the times before, but in the sense of richness? And I didn't have to learn. It just happened. :3
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Date: 2007-04-18 07:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-04-18 01:10 pm (UTC)2) bigger and bigger
3) ...that is the same thing - after i cum a lot, it starts to get closer together and become on huge orgasm, wave after wave. i LOVE when that happens.
4) heh, with that much pleasure i can't tell you my name let alone count. i think i got to 15 before i stopped counting tho.
5) as long as he keeps licking/thrusting
6) i guess i am weird because i never 'learned'. it just...happens.
7) yep
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Date: 2007-04-18 01:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-04-18 02:03 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-04-18 02:51 pm (UTC)I don't mind just having one, but orgasms are like chocolate chip cookies-- always better by the handful, smile.
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Date: 2007-04-18 04:54 pm (UTC)When you have them, do the ones after the first feel different than the first one? Do they feel different from 'one big orgasm'? - Yes. My first one is usually the "big one" and any subsequent orgasms are like little shockwaves. That's when my legs and hips start shaking/convulsing. I actually like the subsequent ones better. My fiance does, too...convulsing = tightening up more.
What's the most you can have in one session? I've honestly never counted.
How long do they last? Very short, but if they come one right after another, it feels like a long time.
Did you have to learn how to have multiple orgasms? If so, how did you learn? Kind of, I was unfortunate enough to lose my virginity and be sexually active fairly early and most of my partners were fellow teenagers who thought it was okay for me to only orgasm once. I just kind of expected that from then on. Then I met my ex, who made it a point to make sure I orgasm at least 3 times before he did.
For those that have multiple orgasms, do you need to have more than one to feel satisfied? It honestly depends on how horny I am. Sometimes, I don't even need one, sometimes the first one is enough, and other times, I could scream for hours. :)
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Date: 2007-04-18 09:22 pm (UTC)How many females out there can have them?
Everyone can. But not everyone has figured out what makes it happen for them yet. I have.
When you have them, do the ones after the first feel different than the first one?
It depends. If I have multiple clitoral orgasms, the first one is a lot deeper and the rest feel 'smaller'. But if I have g-spot/vaginal orgasms, then they get deeper and deeper until I full on screaming.
Do they feel different from 'one big orgasm'?
See above :-P
What's the most you can have in one session?
I think the most I've ever gone to is 13. I normally have 4-5 per session.
How long do they last?
Clitoral orgasms for me are quite quick and make me go all spasmy, g-spot/vaginal orgasms are longer.
Did you have to learn how to have multiple orgasms? If so, how did you learn?
By having an amazing inventive partner! Seriously, my partner is amazing, and opened me up to so many new things and techniques, he made me not afraid of my own body. I'm now polyamorous and have multiple orgasms with my other partners, mostly due to the fact that I feel more 'open' and 'ready' for them.
For those that have multiple orgasms, do you need to have more than one to feel satisfied?
If I'm masturbating, I'll usually delay orgasm, so when I do have one it's a MASSIVE one and just that one is enough for me. But if I'm having sex, I like to have more than one. My partner usually makes me orgasm at least once before he penetrates me, then I'll have several more during intercourse. If he finishes quickly and I've not had many, or any at all, during intercourse, he'll give me oral/manual stimulation to have more orgasms. I think having an understanding, sensitive, gorgeous, sexy lover is VERY important when exploring your sexuality. You cannot expect to have multiple orgasms with someone that you do not trust or feel comfortable with IMO.