[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/__recidivist/ posting in [community profile] vaginapagina
I know that you need to refrain from vaginal penetration for a day or two before a pap smear, so that you don't disturb cervical cells. But is clitoral stimulation and anal penetration okay, or is it better to not have too many fluids going on? I refuse to get another smear if this turns up inconclusive results, but I'd like to get off if it's not going to mess with anything.

Date: 2007-04-18 05:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] isolationista.livejournal.com
Can't you wait? I mean, seriously.

(frozen) Maintainer Note -- Safe Space Warning

Date: 2007-04-18 04:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frolicnaked.livejournal.com
Hi, [livejournal.com profile] isolationista. I'm writing on behalf of the VP Team to express concern that the attitude and/or wording above do not foster what we consider safe space (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_is_.22Safe_Space.22.3F) in this community. Specifically, we are concerned that saying "Can't you wait? I mean, seriously" is dismissive of the OP's concerns. The question is entirely valid, and therefore the OP deserves straightforward answers.

Please consider this a warning as well as a friendly reminder to take this opportunity to review VP's policies. You can find more information on safe space (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_is_.22Safe_Space.22.3F) in our FAQ (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ), as linked here:

--What are VP's rules? (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_are_the_rules.3F)
--What is "safe space"? (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_is_.22Safe_Space.22.3F)
--What do you mean by "empowerment" and why is it important in VP? (http://www.vaginapagina.com/index.php?title=VaginaPagina_FAQ#What_do_you_mean_by_.22empowerment.22_and_why_is_it_important_in_VP.3F)

You are more than welcome to make a post over in [livejournal.com profile] contact_vp or to contact us via email (http://www.vaginapagina.com/contact.php) If you'd like to talk more about this matter or clarify any points; we only ask that you refrain from commenting further here out of respect for the OP. For that reason, replies to this thread will be frozen.

Thanks,
Tori
For the VP Team (http://www.vaginapagina.com/contact.php)
[livejournal.com profile] contact_vp

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