Relationship Milestones

[ruari-explained.livejournal.com]

I've recently started to see someone new and it got me thinking. How do you decided when to advance the relationship physically (ie kissing, oral, spending the night, sex)? Do you have a set amount of time, like 3 dates before having sex for example, or does it depend on the person?

I just feel silly thinking like "Well, on Tuesday I'll do this for the first time, and then when I see him next week, we'll go to third base. If things progress well, I'll let him stay over on the 23rd..."

Comments

[erimenthaodin.livejournal.com]

My first 2 were sometime around a year in happening (bf 2 was a virgin and shy), my third (husband ^.^) would have been first date if I'd had condoms on me. I was so incredibly attracted to him *^.^* I always remember that date and how sweet, sexy and gorgeous he was. We had been close friends before our first date which might have had something to do with the near first date sex. I would not have sex with a stranger/near stranger ever, I have to know them to even consider it. Go at your pace, no faster. Your mind and body will let you know, also be prepared with your birth control, no nookie until that's in place.