Relationship Milestones

[ruari-explained.livejournal.com]

I've recently started to see someone new and it got me thinking. How do you decided when to advance the relationship physically (ie kissing, oral, spending the night, sex)? Do you have a set amount of time, like 3 dates before having sex for example, or does it depend on the person?

I just feel silly thinking like "Well, on Tuesday I'll do this for the first time, and then when I see him next week, we'll go to third base. If things progress well, I'll let him stay over on the 23rd..."

Comments

[lucypevensie.livejournal.com]

Generally, I will do (almost) anything I have already felt comfortable with imagining in great detail.

Obviously there is a progression (I plan on regular vanilla sex prior to the tie-me-to-the-bed episode), but no particular set of times separating the points.