I don't have anything set in stone. I just do what feels right. For me that is a lot easier than setting something in stone. If I set it in stone and I do it sooner because it feels right, it would make me feel bad about doing it "too soon" and if I don't feel comfortable doing it at the set time, I'll start to wonder what's wrong. So I just let things go and see what happens. It's worked out well for me.
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Date: 2007-01-19 04:32 am (UTC)