natural lube & elusive orgasms
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I'm 18 and have been with my partner for two years. We are very open with each other and comfortable doing and saying anything with/to each other. We've always been satisfied in our sex life.
So here's the problem:
I can't seem to make natural lube anymore. In the beginning, we just had booty calls so I could "rev myself up" for sex and be ready by the time he came to pick me up. But now we are dating and living together so sex happens whenever and I can never get wet enough for penetration without assistance. Is there anyway I can enhance my lubrication making abilities?
And here's problem number two:
I have had a million billion orgasms. But I've never had one with my lover (or any other partner I've had). He does everything- the man has performed oral sex for almost an hour to no avail. It feels good, and sometimes I start to feel the build, but then he'll shift position or my mind will wander and I'll lose it. The majority of the times I orgasm, I am masturabating in the shower. But I know that isn't the only time I can because I've woken myself up due to climaxing in my sleep. As you can imagine, this is very frustrating. Any advice?
Thank you all in advance, I've been watching this community for ages and you guys are wonderful.
So here's the problem:
I can't seem to make natural lube anymore. In the beginning, we just had booty calls so I could "rev myself up" for sex and be ready by the time he came to pick me up. But now we are dating and living together so sex happens whenever and I can never get wet enough for penetration without assistance. Is there anyway I can enhance my lubrication making abilities?
And here's problem number two:
I have had a million billion orgasms. But I've never had one with my lover (or any other partner I've had). He does everything- the man has performed oral sex for almost an hour to no avail. It feels good, and sometimes I start to feel the build, but then he'll shift position or my mind will wander and I'll lose it. The majority of the times I orgasm, I am masturabating in the shower. But I know that isn't the only time I can because I've woken myself up due to climaxing in my sleep. As you can imagine, this is very frustrating. Any advice?
Thank you all in advance, I've been watching this community for ages and you guys are wonderful.
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Date: 2006-09-16 04:49 pm (UTC)