It is extremely rare that I come with a partner without the simultaneous aid of my own fingers. Usually I will have my partner penetrate me with a penis, dildo or fingers, and use my own fingers on my clit. This *is* how I have sex, it's not weird or somehow "less than" for me or my partners.
My suggestion is you have him fuck you from behind while you use your fingers on your clit, or similar.
If you are dead set on not using your own hands at all, it can work to have a partner use the fingers of one hand on your clit and the fingers of the other or a dildo inside you, or to use their tongue on your clit and fingers or dildo inside you. I like it when that happens, but it's a lot easier and affords more interesting positions for me to just use my own fingers.
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Date: 2006-07-18 12:52 am (UTC)My suggestion is you have him fuck you from behind while you use your fingers on your clit, or similar.
If you are dead set on not using your own hands at all, it can work to have a partner use the fingers of one hand on your clit and the fingers of the other or a dildo inside you, or to use their tongue on your clit and fingers or dildo inside you. I like it when that happens, but it's a lot easier and affords more interesting positions for me to just use my own fingers.