Genital piercing and a period question.

[fluffychibish.livejournal.com]

So my boyfriend wants to get a reversed Prince Albert done to his penis.
I was wondering if anyone on here as encountered a sex partner with a pierced penis. Was there a lot of pain during sex, or was it more pleasurable? Can someone tell me what I should expect?


Okay, now that I got that out of the way...
I had my period this month already, June 2-10ish. On June 10th, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and we've been having sex everyda for almost a whole week since then. Sometimes twice or three times a day (Haha. Don't judge me! I have a very strong... libido? lol). And well, I have goe one day without having sex and this morning I woke up to my period. Is it possible to have my period twice in one month in such a short span of time? What could cause this to happen? My hormones and less stress? Or... could this be a miscarriage? But then that wouldn't make sense since weve used condoms whenever we had sex together.

Comments

[kage02.livejournal.com]

i personally found it painful, i could feel it the whole time and it just felt bad. now a jacobs ladder is alot more pleasurable.

[fluffychibish.livejournal.com]

hmm.. I don't know if I could handle a jacob's ladder... Just the name of it and the imager I'm getting in my head sounds kinda scary.

[sooz.livejournal.com]

that's funny i'm totally the opposite.. a jacobs ladder totally tore me a little

[kaelstra.livejournal.com]

Unfortunately, the experiences with genital piercings are hugely varied from not only woman-to-woman, but piercing-to-piercing.

Some piercings feel good, some feel bad. Some feel good to some women, some feel painful. We have no way of knowing how you'll handle the specific piercing he wants to get, unfortunately.

He just has to take the plunge and hope it doesn't hurt for you.

Also: Don't assume just because you used condoms you couldn't possibly be pregnant. It can still happen. Birth control can fail. The only 100% method of not getting pregnant is not having sex, period.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

When I had sex with my girlfriend, we weren't risking pregnancy, so not having sex isn't the only way.

[neaira.livejournal.com]

It's the only way in a hetero relationship, assuming neither party is sterile.

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

Or assuming that they don't know how to have sex without PIV. (If I can have sex without PIV with my girlfriend, I certainly can with my boyfriend.)

[irishmexican.livejournal.com]

she meant there is no sure way to avoid pregnancy throught piv sex. I'm sure lesbians don't use birth control to avoid pregnancy either...

[mactavish.livejournal.com]

Oh, of course! I just like it when folks remember that when they use "sex" by itself to mean "penis in vagina," it can be confusing. There are lots of kinds of sex that aren't PIV. Me, I frequently have sex with my boyfriend without pregnancy risk.

[riot-gurl-86.livejournal.com]

my boyfriend has two (prince albert and frenulum)

we haven't really had any problems, and if at any time I find it uncomfortable, he just takes them out. (nice guy, huh?)

I actually find the lovin' a bit better with them in, but I guess it's a matter of personal opinion.

[fluffychibish.livejournal.com]

Hehe, yeah. My boyfriend said that if they feel uncomfortable for me, he would take them out :).

Well.. I guess I'll find out by the end of July!

[betterbebalboa.livejournal.com]

Yes, the surges in hormones during sex can mess around with your period's timing, but it sounds like your period came like 10 days early (I don't know how regular it normally is). You might want to call your OBGYN just to check.
Just a note--I have no personal or anecdotal experience with genital piecings, but I do know from when my roommate got her nose pierced that the info sheet they hand out says "GENITAL PIERCINGS: Absolutely NO sex for six months--sorry!" Now, this is a very cautious and reputable place, so I don't know if every place will tell you the same thing, but 6 months is a LONG time.

[songforpolly.livejournal.com]

It's true that when a man gets a genital piercing he is discouraged from having sex OR masturbating for 6 months, and that's exactly why my boy said fuck that :p
However when a girl gets a hood/clit piercing it usually only takes about 3 weeks. Heh heh heh.

[rovylern.livejournal.com]

According to the QOD archives (http://iam.bmezine.com/qod4.exe?) at BME, the only thing you really should do is be gentle and use protection during the healing process of a genital piercing (to prevent bacteria from getting into the open wound), and to be sure that it's pierced at a large enough gauge that it won't rip (they take a lot more "abuse" than other piercings).

None of the piercers I've known have ever recommended that someone abstain for six months, considering that genitals heal more quickly than most of the rest of the body. The longest I've EVER seen any piercer recommend is 4-8 weeks (and here's a professional piercer over at BME saying the same thing (http://iam.bmezine.com/qod4.exe?cmd=entry&tprm=386), if you want a reference).

As for what feels good, it all depends on your body. There's no harm in trying it and seeing how it works. After all, if it's too uncomfortable it can always be removed...personally, I love the way an apadravya feels more than any other kind of below the belt piercing, but I also know women who hate them.

[eat-your-heart.livejournal.com]

I think that it feels amazing!
And you don't HAVE to wait to have sex/masturbate. I had a female guiche done and had sex the next day. My piercer gave me permission, well it was him I was having sex with :) As long as he cleans it right after and doesn't push himself into injury he should be fine.

[fluffychibish.livejournal.com]

I kind of want one of those done.... But yeah, my boyfriend has done a lot of research on the reverse PA. He says he's only has to wait like 3 - 6 weeks.

[hopingforrain.livejournal.com]

Having a lot of sex, or having sex after not having it for a long time, can make one's period come sooner.

I've personally experienced this several times.

Who knows why. My theory is it has to do with being exposed to the other person's phermones or some other chemical reaction.