Cervix banging? :( I don't know!
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vaginapaginaUgh lord I really have no idea what's going on. I'll try to make it as clear as possible.
A few years ago I had just started having sex with someone who was fairly long in the hose. I noticed that certain times when we had sex, he would be "hitting" something up there and it would hurt like crazy. I looked on a few places and most of them came to the conclusion that he was hitting my cervix and it would be fine if we just changed positions, etc. Since then I've always assumed that he was hitting my cervix.
Cut to the present. Another long-membered partner, another bout of (what I assume is) cervix banging. He's a very curious fellow and every now and then will stick some fingers up there for sheer exploration. He'll feel around.. "oh, there's a knob here" ... "hmm, you like when I touch that squishy part there" etc. Upon one of these explorations he went pretty far up and started touching something. It didn't feel OMFOGOGFOMGOFG YES but it didn't hurt. I asked him to describe what it felt like. He said it felt almost exactly like the head of a penis ("sort of a donut with a little hole in the middle"). Clearly, that has to be my cervix, right? I mean, that's precisely what a cervix looks and feels like: the somewhat harder head of a penis.
So my question here is how come when he touches what is definitely my cervix with his fingers, it doesn't hurt at all, but when he hits what I'm pretty sure is my cervix with his penis, it feels like death? Is he hitting something else with his penis?
A few years ago I had just started having sex with someone who was fairly long in the hose. I noticed that certain times when we had sex, he would be "hitting" something up there and it would hurt like crazy. I looked on a few places and most of them came to the conclusion that he was hitting my cervix and it would be fine if we just changed positions, etc. Since then I've always assumed that he was hitting my cervix.
Cut to the present. Another long-membered partner, another bout of (what I assume is) cervix banging. He's a very curious fellow and every now and then will stick some fingers up there for sheer exploration. He'll feel around.. "oh, there's a knob here" ... "hmm, you like when I touch that squishy part there" etc. Upon one of these explorations he went pretty far up and started touching something. It didn't feel OMFOGOGFOMGOFG YES but it didn't hurt. I asked him to describe what it felt like. He said it felt almost exactly like the head of a penis ("sort of a donut with a little hole in the middle"). Clearly, that has to be my cervix, right? I mean, that's precisely what a cervix looks and feels like: the somewhat harder head of a penis.
So my question here is how come when he touches what is definitely my cervix with his fingers, it doesn't hurt at all, but when he hits what I'm pretty sure is my cervix with his penis, it feels like death? Is he hitting something else with his penis?
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Date: 2006-05-14 08:13 am (UTC)sucks, doesnt it? lol.
the fingers just touch it, his penis HITS it. thats the difference.
i used to have a big problem with it, and even now, i do from time to time, but its like my cervix built up a tolerance...