Libido Loss

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Hey all, I'm a 19 year old female with libido trouble. I'm rarely in the mood, and when I do have sex I have trouble staying wet down there. It's very frustrating and upsetting. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now, (I've known him for 3.5) and we've fooled around a little (very minimal) and we've had sex 3 times. He's never gotten off through intercourse, and that makes me feel like I'm doing it wrong, he says I'm not but thats how I feel. I never want to have sex , I think it might be because I was raped in 2003. He knows about it, and says he's not going to hurt me, and I know that. I just don't know if he fully understands how I feel.

It's upsetting to both of us, and I feel horrible. I don't know what to do to help it.

Help

Comments

[brina-is-sassy.livejournal.com]

I really think you need to stop having sex with him and work on these other issues. They can all be the whole cause of your problem and by having sex and doing this really extremely intimate thing when you aren't even comfortable having your breasts touched is only making things worse.

You will never be able to enjoy sex if you aren't comfortable with your own body because you're constantly going to have that issue going on and making it one bad experience after another.