vaginapagina | "You're so tight, baby." "Yeah, TELL me about it." (Reply)

Alright, here's a fun vagina problem and I hope I didn't miss a FAQ about it, but: is there anything to do when your vagina is just too damn tight? I've been able to have sex with men and dildos, but almost always uncomfortably. I don't know if I'm actually anatomically too small (which seems unlikely, every other part of my anatomy is pretty average size) or if I just don't know how to relax the muscles, but I feel like I'm just barely able to take one finger before it starts to hurt. Even besides hurting me, stuff just doesn't fit, to the point where it makes my male partners physically uncomfortable sometimes.

Is there... anything I can do? (And please don't say "consider activities besides intercourse," because I've considered them and more, believe me, but I would really really like to fuck too.) I know it's possible, vaginas are places where whole hands can go in and babies can come out, but I'm not even asking that much. I just want to have sex. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Thanks in advance if you can help me.