Fisting

[honeyassassin.livejournal.com]

I just wanted to share my experience with all of you. For a few months I've been really curious about vaginal fisting.. It may sound scary to those who haven't heard about it, but really it isn't like someone just shoves their fist in you, unless of course you enjoy it like that, (done properly) it was very gentle, gradual pushing of the hand, balled, thumb in.

My partner has small hands, so that helped too...and of course a LOT of lubricant.

I really enjoyed it because i think i have a short vaginal canal. i don't always enjoy long thrusting (sometimes it bruises my cervix, giving me cramps which i do not enjoy....By the way, does anyone know any good positions to minimize the chances of cervix bumping/bruising?)But i DO enjoy girth, so if you are similar, I would definetly consider it.

I found it to be so incredible. I had a mind blowing orgasm and I was so loud during the experience because it felt SO good, and like nothing I had ever experienced before..and i've been sexually active for 7 years and have always loved penetration.

It was the first time so we had to stop when she was in right to the knuckle, because that is the widest part of the hand and it got a little too intense. She wasn't moving her hand much, not in and out, but more rocking it back and forth and from side to side. That felt really, really good. I definetly want to try to go further, next time ;) I really loved it. In fact i can't stop thinking about it today, lol.

I would reccomend the book: A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting if you are curious about it. It really explains the how to's, and what you can expect from the experience, along with different positions and who should not be doing fisting. Plus it has fisting poetry, which is pretty funny but awesome nonetheless, And great, accurate illustrations :)

Thanks for listening, and for being such a great community <3

Comments

[ex-leopardp.livejournal.com]

I love that book:-)

Thanks for sharing that experience with us. Very cool!

[ilikemytie.livejournal.com]

thank you for sharing! I, myself enjoyed fisting when I was dating women. Man hands are a LOT scarier!!

[honeyassassin.livejournal.com]

i can imagine that would be intimidating!

[amethsunreyse.livejournal.com]

I love fisting myself. I'm going to check out that book. Thanks for the info! :)

[honeyassassin.livejournal.com]

Any time!! :)

[purplepuffygirl.livejournal.com]

My boyfriend has been dropping hints (not so subtle mind you) about wanting to try it with me. He's done it before - but I've never had it done.

And yes - the thought of it scares me ... a lot. It sounds so exciting but at the same time very intimidating. I want to try it - but I need to get up enough courage to do so.

I think I should check out that book. Thanks for sharing your positive experience - makes me not so scared - for now. :)

[honeyassassin.livejournal.com]

I think that it's great your boyfriend is interested in trying that with you... if he has experience doing it, he might be really great at it :)

Does he have big hands? Do you have a small vagina? How many of his fingers can you take normally?

If you think the anatomy is compatible, my advice is to be open minded about it, not to be scared to do it, but think of it as something that has the potential to make you feel really good. That way you can be relaxed, and even really turned on by the thought of recieving his hand.

I was SO looking forward to doing it that i was really relaxed and able to recieve it with virtually no problem. Just think of it as something that will give you a lot of pleasure :) And it IS very exciting. Of course, talk before hand, go slowly, only take how much your body is willing to, don't force it. Happy experimenting :)

[lizs18.livejournal.com]

Yeah fisting is great-I find that I can only do it with the small-handed though.

[honeyassassin.livejournal.com]

I think my partner felt great to do it because she's usually self conscious about her small hands.. but hey she was at a total advantage right? besides i always say it's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean...

[adiekit.livejournal.com]

I read that book as well. It was a good place to start for the partner I had and I to try this. :) It was interesting, fun, and a throughly new experience for us. :)

[dead-corvette.livejournal.com]

WHERE CAN I GET THE BOOK?
haha :D
seriously-
a) go you
b) fisting= ♥