Vagina? Lesbian anyone?

[garygetsnolove.livejournal.com]

I want to clear up some things that I had asked a new member who happens to be a fabulously patient and kind person.

I asked her if she was a true lesbian.

I want to elaborate on that, just for a minute.

No one should ever have to prove how much of a lesbian they are. Right? I totally agree that no one but You can decide what you would like to call yourself in regards to your sexuality.

But does your vagina know?

I mean, if you are the type of lesbian that cannot get turned on mentally by a man, is your vagina gonna know, and is it gonna be more tense?

In the same aspect, if you're a lesbian who can also enjoy sex with men, mentally and physically, is your vagina down with penis?

Does your vagina have a direct link with your brain when it comes to this stuff, and does it have more say in how you feel about having sex than we ever thought?

One time I "did stuff" with a guy. I mean, nothing involving vaginal sex, but other stuff. And although my body was aroused, my brain was not. Im a lesbian, and have known this for a long time. So I know that I could probably have sex with a guy, and I could probably be turned on. But I think my vagina might put up a stink. It might tighten, tense up and not let the penis in. It might scream in pain afterwards. Is this possible?

Thanks for your comments, in advance.

Comments

[dreamfireflame.livejournal.com]

Well.. yes.

This might be TMI, but if I try to masturbate while thinking of any random female, my vagina doesn't respond very well. If i think of those I've had crushes on before.. i respond much more.

I think part of it is the whole arousal thing.. physically your body arouses with most touches.. but your brain doesn't get as aroused, and thus affects your physical experiences.. being female, that affects how your vagina reacts and functions.