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[mamahahn.livejournal.com]

Hello ladies..

Question:
I don't get to see my boy very often so when I do.. of course.. we have sex.. because we're bad like that.. anyway..
He's really huge.. and I don't mean that in a good brag way.. I mean it in a bad way.. He tears me apart every time.. and I know lube and all of that will help that but unfortunatly.. this past weekend.. we didn't have that handy.. so now, I'm ripped open at the bottom of my vaginal opening and my chronic UTI is acting up again.. anyone got any ideas for immediate relief for the ripped bit? This has happened many times before and every time I go to the gyno, she just puts me on antibiotics and gives me AZO (which I am taking) for the UTI but I'm used to them so I can handle that.. I'm usually so good at not letting this ripping happen anymore but .. ugh my vagina is on.. FIRE =\

Much thanks as I start my IV of cranberry juice ..
<3

Comments

[pdxpigglewiggle.livejournal.com]

Hopefully it's natural cranberry juice as the sugar in Ocean Spray & such will only add to the bacteria.

[mamahahn.livejournal.com]

most definitely.. I have UTI's all the time =\ I've had one before that put me in the hospital... there's not much that they can do for me but antibiotics whenever i get one.. sucks so much..

[pdxpigglewiggle.livejournal.com]

UGH, I'm sorry. I feel your pain. You probably know all the "tricks" already but I've found that peeing each and every time after sex seems to help me.

I've found that cranberry pills (natural food aisle/store) seem to work better than just cranberry juice though!

[mamahahn.livejournal.com]

yeah the peeing thing works but what do you do if you don't have to pee? just.. wash it? lol

[geminigirl]

I sit on the toilet and run the water in the sink. It usually triggers the reflex within a few minutes.

[ihatepavel.livejournal.com]

Ditto.

[pdxpigglewiggle.livejournal.com]

I always try anyway. I can normally squeeze something out.

[cheekymama.livejournal.com]

make sure when you do have sex...if theres no lube handy anyway, to get really aroused before you let him inside. the more natural wetness you have before hand will really help out in the ouch factor. Foreplay is the key here!

[fumblerette1.livejournal.com]

I totally agree. if he's up for it, maybe ask him to go down on you and get you very close to orgasm, and then have sex with you.my boyfriend likes to do this to me just for fun, but I find it's what gets me the wettest. (And i definitely understand the really big in a not good bragging kind of way!)

[mamahahn.livejournal.com]

Yeah.. I figure once I get to be around him more often (we're currently long distance due to college) that i may stretch out eventually and it won't happen so badly

[cutedeadgirl.livejournal.com]

Don't worry, the yearing at the bottom happened to me too a lot, as painful as it is I don't think you can avoid it if you're real small. In some time it will stop happening, things will adjust and it'll be just fine.

[float0n-.livejournal.com]

I'm not sure about the sex part but I would like to recommend soaking in Apple Cider Vinegar for your UTI's.

about 1 cup in a full tub, soak for 20 minutes and let the water flow in & out of your vagina. It helps so much!

also, i had a gyno who told me that if I didn't want to be so messed up after sex (i was dating a guy who was large too) she said he couldn't thrust all the way inside me.