Boyfriend upset about PIV not being pleasurable for me

[waterblaster.livejournal.com]

Hi, everyone!

I'll make it brief: 23 years old, started having sex about a month ago. I'm a heterosexual female.

My "problem" basically is that my boyfriend is somewhat frustrated that I don't get any pleasure from PIV sex. Well, I get SOME. But not too much... Has anybody experienced this? How did you handle it?

I guess we could try finding my G-spot... We haven't done that yet. Or masturbate while having sex (but then again, this last option still doesn't take away the "you'd rather have a hand on you than a penis" problem...)

I'm not considering it a big deal, 'cause frankly I love having sex with him, I love giving him oral sex, and well, I love him (though he doesn't know it yet, hehe). But he has told me on occasion that it somewhat upsets him that I prefer having him touch me with his fingers than having his penis inside. (Or even yesterday, when we dry-humped, his leg hit me right where I needed it, and I felt incredibly aroused. I absolutely loved it, but he thought it was disappointing that his leg felt better than his penis.)

I'm sure this is a common issue; I'm really eager to hear your take on it...

Thanks, everyone!

possible PCOS? How to go about talking to the Dr

[crazy-heva.livejournal.com]

Hello I'm 21, cis-female and strongly suspect something is going on with my hormones that shouldnt be. I suspect it may be PCOS.


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If anyone could shed any light on how to approach the Dr or if the PCOS thing is really what's likely to be wrong. I am worried about my weight and would like to get my BMI down to around 23-24.  I am more concerned about the risks for the future than my current health but my weight and hair does concern me at the moment. I have always had quite a lot of confidence but the last year or so it is slipping despite other areas of my life going well (great career prospects and a great relationship).

Many thanks

Heather

hbc aide effect?

[naked-beauty-21.livejournal.com]

Hey lovelies!

I had a random cramp in my right calf leg that would brobably be 5/10 on the pain scale and I'm on my 5th day of taking desogen. I know calf pain is a sign of a blood clot so I was kinda concerned. It felt just like a normal muscle cramp, and now is like a 0.5 or 1 on the pain scale now. Should I be worried?

Thanks!