birth control questions

[jadenfox.livejournal.com]

Ok so my computer for some strange reason isnt letting me look through the links you fine people have provided, so I am asking my questions here.

I am 30...yep.  I am engaged to be married to a wonderful man whom I have been with for 7 years.  We use my hormonal birthcontrol pill as our only protection.  It is alesse 28 (also known as aviane/lutera).  I have been on this pill for 15 years. Never have had an issue, and we are both std free ect.

I may have had a chemical type pregnancy in my teens, but nothing else, and am a SA survivior. 

My questions are as follows:

first of all-- My hubby-to-be and I dont want children.  Not for us. We have dogs :)... so:

1.  I want mirena.  Having never had kids, is it even possible? 
2. about mirena, any advice on how to get it? Planned parenthood? trying to get my doc to agree?
3. Implanon- good? bad? ugly?

I am allergic to nickle, so no copper IUD, and no one is going to implant essure without me having kids, so I am looking for long term options that someone will give me!!

Thanks!!

*ETA changed my intro to be more appropriate, and to add that I never intended to offend, I honestly didnt even really think about it, but you all are right, and I need to be more careful! 

Comments

[x-hypatia-x.livejournal.com]

I'm sure you didn't! I thought maybe it hadn't occurred to you to edit, so I was suggesting, but now it's all good.

And d'oh, I didn't realize Essure had nickel, or at least, I spaced out on it, even though they gave me a little card to give to health care providers if I have to get an MRI or something. Suck. While the procedure was not fun, I've otherwise been really happy with it. If you do want any info or want to discuss vasectomies, I'd be happy to share, even though it's not technically about vaginas. :) Otherwise, I'd still go with calling ob/gyns before scheduling an appointment to make sure they're not going to be hostile to the idea of providing a nulliparous woman an IUD; Planned Parenthood seems to be more willing than other providers to do that.

(Your dog is adorable!)