(( VaginaPagina ))

I grew up in a very comunicative house hold and I just thought I might share some things with you that my mother has told me!! 1. Every girl is nervous about oral the first time (whether this is true or not doesn't matter, it helps to think so!), you just gotta relax and enjoy the ride (I closed my eyes the first time because I didn't want to see him down there). 2. if you want to experiance an orgasm you need to find your special spots on your own time ( know they self!, or better yet, you have to learn to love yourself before anyone else can love you the way that you deserve to be loved ;) ). 3. communication is the key to reaching orgasm with a partner ( don't be afaid to tell them when something is feeling really good ) 4. the louder you get the better it feels ( i swear I thought she was nuts when she told me this, but it has proven to be absolutely true for me. when I get loud He enjoys it more and it starts feeling better and better hence getting closer to an orgasmic state. 5. if you are afraid that he won't like the smell down there, tell him that you are afraid, chances are he likes it a million times better that you do (guys are just weird like that!). 6. the more you focus on the feeling and just let yourself be in that feeling the more likely you will be to orgasm, don't think about trying to get there, if it's not gonna happen it's just not. Oh and one from me... guys love it down there, but alot of them don't know what they're doing. it is very important to talk to him about how it feels when he's doing his thing. don't be afaid to say no i don't like that, or oh yeah right there! sqirming is totally natural and makes it more fun!! ENJOY and GOOD LUCK! :)