Friendly Porn?

[le-soleil-noir.livejournal.com]

I am looking for porn to watch with my partner.

Problem is, I don't ever watch porn. It turns me off most of the time. I don't like how men/women are portrayed in most of the stuff I have seen and I feel like in a lot of porn the girls/guys are not only not my type but also a huge turn off.

But i'm pretty sure good porn is out there? I like the idea of just watching real people web camming.

I suppose I like alternative looking folk (godsgirls/suicide/ect) or even just normal looking folk. I just don't like that overly sexed up porn look.

Anyone have any good suggestions? Maybe porn made by women for women? Can be any kind of orientation porn. Open to any suggestions.

Thanks!

Comments

[adamantplatypus.livejournal.com]

You want amateur porn. Stuff like that is mostly people in relationships video taping themselves playing around. You won't find overly madeup porn stars and unrealistic acting in that.

[pew-pew-pew.livejournal.com]

Not sure if we're allowed links on here but you could try YouPorn? There's some webcam stuff on there although most of it is really horrible, degrating-to-women stuff. Worth a shot I guess! :)

[spamanda77.livejournal.com]

All these links are not safe for work, obviously. :)

http://www.abbywinters.com/ageverify
(girls masturbating, girl-girl, lesbian porn)

http://crashpadseries.com/
(this is queer porn)

http://www.kink.com/k/sites.jsp?c=1
(this site is hardcore bdsm/kink, but I find them to be wonderfully positive about all sorts of bodies)

And because I love her, Violet Blue's excellent article on women watching porn, including her guide on how to find the porn you might like:
http://www.tinynibbles.com/smartporn

I find queer porn to be much more accepting of "normal" bodies (just in my experience, and I'm queer myself, so that makes it easy for me to enjoy!). If you look around on redtube, youporn, pornhub (these are all free porn websites) you will definitely find more amateur-type videos.

Good luck!

[gryphonwing.livejournal.com]

How did I miss CrashPad? The teasers there have made me actually seriously consider paying for porn. So gorgeous!

[lupinelullaby.livejournal.com]

Speaking as a heterosexual cis female, I love Abby Winters. It's beautiful, soft, and shows real women.

Also seconding the kink.com recommendation if you're into BDSM or more extreme kinks.

[rikkitsune.livejournal.com]

I'll second the kink.com recommendation. If you're into that stuff, they have a large variety of different themes and a huge cross-section of REAL-looking people.

[collsers.livejournal.com]

Just seconding what others said about looking for amateur stuff. They used to have a decent selection of it on xtube, but now they have a lot more professional videos (still worth looking)

[iconotakeu.livejournal.com]

Yeah xtube isn't bad but it's not that great there's more professional looking videos that reflect today's porn which IMO is horrible. I don't care all that much for internet porn. I still think mags and well now DVDs are the way to go - call me "old school" or just "old" lol.

[rubynye.livejournal.com]

Also, try looking through the listings on the Blowfish online catalogue?

[shirasade]

My own personal het fave is Comstock Films' Xana and Dax, which is a real couple making love interspersed with them talking about their relationship.

[whowehavetofear.livejournal.com]

I haven't been able to afford it yet, but I really like the preview clips on Queerporn.tv.
http://queerporn.tv/Welcome.html

[iconotakeu.livejournal.com]

Today's porn is not so great, I like 70s and 80s porn (yes it was fake but not so "fake looking") IMO anyway. If you're looking for something from today I agree with adamantplatypus, amateur porn is the way to go - today's mainstream porn is very fake, no more real breasts (nothing moves, I like to see things move!!!!), everyone is a perfect size, there's not a hair to be found and people (even the men) look like they aren't really into it all that much lol.

[ennifer-jay.livejournal.com]

There's a Feminist Porn Awards that highlights porn made by women for women: http://www.goodforher.com/fpa_2011

[takemyhand.livejournal.com]

yuvutu.com is mostly amateur and free. Might take some searching to find what you like but totally worth a shot.

[linusandsabine.livejournal.com]

Nofauxxx

[morien-san.livejournal.com]

I recommend everything and anything by Tristan Taormino, especially her Expert Guide to Female Orgasms and Rough Sex 1 & 2 (haven't gotten to watching 3 just yet). Chemistry series's (sort of Big Brother with porn stars) pretty good too.
Recently I watched Gush: the official guide to G-spot and female ejaculation made by a company affiliated with Good Vibrations. It was hot if a bit repetitive.
I tend to focus on educational or gonzo porn so there's nothing with an elaborate plot that I can think of to recommend. I've heard good things about Matinee, tough.

[6-05.livejournal.com]

Cam4.com is a decent webcam site.

[cittenscollar.livejournal.com]

I recently found the site http://tribbing.org/

Some videos are good, some are bad... A lot of the videos are down, too. Most of the women here are thin and feminine, which isn't really my taste, but I've enjoyed some of the stuff there. Might be worth a browse.

Definitely adding this to my memories. Trying to find legitimate lesbian porn that is free has been the bane of my masturbatory existence.

[fire-and-icicle.livejournal.com]

Wow, I'm totally bookmarking this post. Great recs, everyone!