Lo Loestrin?
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I finally got off my lazy ass to talk to my doctor about going on birth control to keep endometriosis at bay (and I only really went there because I had what I thought was a horrible yeast infection. Nope, turned out my BV was back, and this time, instead of just making me leaky, sore and weird-smelling, it decided to itch like crazy. Fun times!) and he thinks that Lo Loestrin would be my best bet because it's the "mildest" form of hbc out there, apparently. He assured me that there would be no moodiness, nausea, weight gain or spotting (and while I know he can't promise that - and I'm 100% I will be nauseated on these pills because everything upsets my stomach - I get what he's saying.)
Thing is, I'm really freaked out to start it. My gyn/onc decided to start shooting me up with Lupron immediately, before I could talk to anyone about it, and assured me it'd be fine. Like a dumbass, I didn't question it, and entered into the most miserable month of my life. I was suicidally depressed and so moody my girlfriend wanted to break up with me because she couldn't take how short-tempered I'd gotten. That's really what's scaring me the most. I can deal with weight gain, spotting, whatever. I'm just terrified of turning into such a psycho bitch that the best thing that ever happened to me can't stand to be near me. I'd rather go back to being unable to sleep on my stomach because of the giant endo growths than lose her.
So I'm wondering, those of you who've taken it, what side effects did you notice? If it makes a difference, I'm supposed to only take the sugar pills every three months and suppress my period the two months before. I'm not sure if that makes a difference with regard to side effects.
Thing is, I'm really freaked out to start it. My gyn/onc decided to start shooting me up with Lupron immediately, before I could talk to anyone about it, and assured me it'd be fine. Like a dumbass, I didn't question it, and entered into the most miserable month of my life. I was suicidally depressed and so moody my girlfriend wanted to break up with me because she couldn't take how short-tempered I'd gotten. That's really what's scaring me the most. I can deal with weight gain, spotting, whatever. I'm just terrified of turning into such a psycho bitch that the best thing that ever happened to me can't stand to be near me. I'd rather go back to being unable to sleep on my stomach because of the giant endo growths than lose her.
So I'm wondering, those of you who've taken it, what side effects did you notice? If it makes a difference, I'm supposed to only take the sugar pills every three months and suppress my period the two months before. I'm not sure if that makes a difference with regard to side effects.
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Date: 2011-12-05 12:26 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-12-05 12:35 am (UTC)Good luck. And remember, you're not alone! A whole lot of us have tried lots of BC's trying to find "the one".
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Date: 2011-12-05 12:36 am (UTC)I gain weight from everything, and now I'm on zoloft, which makes me hungry enough to eat an entire continent, so what the hell, at this point, I'm just accepting the fact that I'm going to be fat forever :/ As long as it doesn't turn me completely psychotic, I'm happy.
I tend to take my pills around the same time daily anyway, because my bedtimes vary so much it's just easier, so hopefully that won't be an issue here. Guess I'll find out once this period ends and I start 'em. (I'm not sure if I'm supposed to wait or not but this period's been kicking my ass and I just don't feel like adding more fuel to that fire.)
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Date: 2011-12-05 12:40 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2011-12-05 12:53 am (UTC)i hear you on the being fat thing, though it doesn't help my depression. i guess i've come to terms with it lol.
it's my understanding that you can either start it at the beginning, or sunday after your period. so which ever. i'm a pain in the ass patient and i always just start mine when i get them lol
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Date: 2011-12-05 01:11 am (UTC)Side effects? I don't normally get nauseous from meds, so I wouldn't be able to speak to that. My moods aren't nearly as intensely changing as they were when I was on Nuvaring. If anything, I'm maybe a little more prone to crying than usual, but I don't cry for no reason like I used to. The bleeding is hardly there. I did have one really awful month last month, where I bled for 12 days and had heavy cramps, but that was the first time since May. The nurse at my OB/GYN office said it was probably due to stress (I am in law school, so this is entirely possible) and to keep going with it.
Overall, I really like Lo-Loestrin. :)
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Date: 2011-12-05 02:33 am (UTC)I have really no memory of life before HBC because I got on it just a year after I began menstruating. In the couple years I've become much more body-aware and I learned that I have really bad PMS mood swings and also terrible menstrual migraines. So I decided fewer periods in a year was a better bet for me. So far, so good. That week before the period now is complete and utter hell mood-wise. I'm just a total anxious wreck, but I warn my partner when that week is coming up so he knows to be extra invincible when I'm behaving poorly. The headaches are worse, too, but I've been doing a preemptive Ibuprofen regimen that's kept me mostly symptom-free.
I have no idea what I'd be like off the pill, but I find being on the pill totally manageable except that one week every three months when I fall into a suicidal rage. Also, the first couple days of the period, I bleed enough to overflow my menstrual cup in 4 hours. But still. Only 4 times a year!
I'd say try it out and just have a sit-down with your partner about it. Ask for patience and honesty, and try to keep your cool if she tells you your behavior is whack.
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Date: 2011-12-05 02:33 am (UTC)Prone to crying I can deal with - I'm like that anyway :) I just can't cope with being short-tempered and ragey.
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Date: 2011-12-05 02:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-12-05 02:35 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-12-05 02:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-12-05 02:52 am (UTC)You just have to try it and see. Its sad really. But do let people close around you know whats going on, it can really help.
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Date: 2011-12-05 02:53 am (UTC)Me: *ranting angrily and accusatorily about something I've chosen to misinterpret*
Him: I'd be happy to have this conversation with you, but I think it would be more productive next week.
Me: No, I want to solve this now because I'm angry about it now.
Him: I understand that, but don't you think your mood might be affected by the fact that you have a period coming up?
Me: Yes, but I don't care. I want to talk about it now.
Him: Right, but I don't think we'll actually solve the problem by talking about it now. I think it's best if we wait a few days, and if it's still bothering you, we can talk about it then.
Me: Yeah, but I'm not gonna want to talk about it then because it's a stupid problem and I won't care anymore.
Him: Okay, so does that solve it?
Me: Yeah, for you, but I still FEEL ALL THE FEELINGS!
And then in a few days I'm fine again.
But I think it does help him to know that I'm not actually that impossible to deal with. And giving him some warning helps him bulk up for the impending doom.
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Date: 2011-12-05 03:06 am (UTC)On the other hand, I have a really good friend who thinks Loestrin is one of the best birth controls out there, and my gyno kept assuring me it was really mild. I guess it totally depends on the person.
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Date: 2011-12-05 05:49 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2011-12-05 07:39 pm (UTC)However, I have had spotting more months than I don't. My period is pretty much non-existent, so I put up with the spotting.
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Date: 2011-12-06 03:35 pm (UTC)I've been told that this story is irrelevant and that every person's reaction to BC is different, but you asked for our side effects so this is mine!
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